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How to Leave Your Spouse Guaranteed Income Without Guessing

Stan Haithcock
October 30, 2025
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When most people think about retirement planning, they focus on themselves, how much they’ll need, how long their money will last, and how to make it stretch. But there’s another critical question that often gets overlooked: what happens to your income after you’re gone?

If your spouse or partner depends on you financially, you can’t afford to leave that question unanswered. The good news is, you don’t need to guess or rely on luck. You can create a plan that guarantees income for your spouse for life, no matter when you pass away.

That’s what real planning looks like: setting things up so your loved one doesn’t have to make financial decisions in the middle of grief.

The Problem With Buying Too Soon

Here’s a common mistake I see all the time. Someone calls and says, “Stan, I want to buy an annuity now that will start paying income to my wife after I die.”

That’s what I call throwing annuity darts at your death. You’re trying to predict the unpredictable. None of us know when we’ll die, so buying a product today for an event that could be twenty years away doesn’t make sense.

If you buy too early, you lock up money for years without getting value from it. You’ll probably overpay for a feature you may never even use.

There’s a smarter way to handle this, one that protects your spouse without wasting a dime.

The Right Way to Plan It

If your goal is to make sure your spouse has guaranteed income after you’re gone, don’t buy an annuity now. Instead, set up instructions in your estate plan.

Work with an estate planning attorney and tell them this: “When I die, I want a Single Premium Immediate Annuity purchased for my spouse.”

That’s it. You can even specify the amount of income you want, say, $2,500 a month for life, and leave the exact purchase details to be handled by your executor.

That way, you don’t tie up money now, and your spouse still gets a guaranteed income stream later. You can even run quotes today to estimate what that income would look like based on current rates, but the purchase doesn’t happen until after your death.

This is how you build a clear, efficient plan that turns into action the moment it’s needed.

Why This Works Better

When you handle it through your estate plan, your money keeps working for you while you’re alive. You maintain flexibility, and you’re not locked into one carrier or contract that could become less competitive later.

And when you die, your spouse gets exactly what you planned for: a lifetime income stream, backed by a top-rated insurance company.

That’s far better than guessing with your timing or relying on an agent’s sales pitch about “turning it on later.”

Why Timing Matters

Buying an annuity for your spouse after your death works because the math is based on their life expectancy at that time, not yours today. That means the payout will be priced accurately for the situation.

If you buy now and die decades later, your spouse would have waited years for an income that didn’t start until after your passing. Meanwhile, the insurer has been holding your money the whole time.

In other words, you’ve given them free use of your funds for no reason.

Keep Your Powder Dry

I like to tell people, “Keep your powder dry.” That means stay prepared, but don’t pull the trigger too early. You can structure everything legally, so it happens automatically when it should.

When you die, your attorney executes the plan, purchases the annuity, and your spouse starts receiving monthly payments for life.

That’s how you take care of your family without wasting money or leaving anything to chance.

Don’t Fall for the Sales Pitches

Be careful with anyone who tries to sell you an annuity today for future spousal income. You’ll hear phrases like, “Buy it now and your spouse can turn it on when you die.”

That’s not efficient, and it’s not necessary. You’re better off waiting and handling it through your estate.

Annuities are customizable tools, not one-size-fits-all products. The best way to use them is with logic, not emotion.

How to Get Started

The first step is to talk to a qualified estate planning attorney. Tell them exactly what you want to happen when you die. Be specific about your goals, how much income your spouse should receive, whether you want it to last for their lifetime, and who the beneficiaries should be after that.

Once that’s in writing, you can work with The Annuity Man Team to model the numbers and make sure the plan lines up with current annuity rates. That way, everything is ready to go when the time comes.

The Bottom Line

If your spouse depends on your income, don’t leave it to chance. Don’t throw annuity darts and hope you hit the right number. Create a real plan that triggers guaranteed income for your spouse the moment you’re gone.

Set it up through your estate, not a sales pitch. Keep your powder dry, stay flexible, and protect your loved ones the smart way.

That’s how you turn uncertainty into security, and that’s what annuities were built to do.

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