080 Jamie Hopkins: Retirement Planning And The Why That Makes You Cry

IN THIS EPISODE, THE ANNUITY MAN AND JAMIE HOPKINS DISCUSS:
- ROS - Return on Sleep
- From an accumulation to a decumulation mindset
- Living your retirement meaningfully
- Changing your relationship with money
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- People often don’t care about optimal, people care about being happy. Giving people a good retirement experience, a Return On Sleep, is better than giving optimal results.
- Point your focus towards what you’re planning to work towards or what you want to acquire - accumulating money isn’t going to do you any good if you don’t convert it into anything that will make your retirement a joyful experience.
- If you go into retirement and end up not having any passion for anything or not having anything you care about, you’re not gonna have a great retirement - whatever it might be, find that piece that will make your retirement meaningful for you. That’s true wealth.
- Think about rewiring your preconceptions around money and wealth - it takes more than planning, it takes coaching and being aware of the misconceptions that you hold.
"Would you give up all your money if it means that you’ll be happy for the rest of your life? Most people would say yes - that’s what we’re aiming for. Dollars are a means to an end." — Jamie Hopkins
Connect with Jamie Hopkins:
Website: https://www.jamiehopkins.com/
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/RetirementRisks
Book: https://www.jamiehopkins.com/book/
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welcome to fun with annuities i'm your
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me and the guests interacting
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um but welcome let me introduce our
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guest so we can get right to it because
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i want to pick his brain clean before he
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gets off of this podcast his name is
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jamie hopkins we're going to have his um
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his website and how to get in touch with
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him how to buy his books and all that
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stuff on my site he'll have a permanent
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page on my site
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just like all of our celebrity guests
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he's the managing partner of wealth
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solutions he's a
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finance professor of practice at
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creighton university's hydro college of
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business
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he's also a nationally recognized writer
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and researcher you might have read his
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stuff in forbes investment news and
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marketwatch just to name a few he's
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co-authored three textbooks
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and has two e-books on retirement
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planning he's also the author of a book
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he wrote in 2018 which i love the title
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rewirement not retirement but rewirement
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the rewiring rewiring the way you think
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about retirement it's a fantastic book
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once again we'll have that on our site
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you can link and buy that as well he
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received his bachelor of arts degree in
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political science at davidson college
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in north carolina where he was captain
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of the division one
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varsity men's swim team which tells if
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you if you know anything about that
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discipline that kind of tells you who he
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is
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he attended the villanova school of law
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where he earned his jd in grad and
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graduated there with honors he also went
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to temple university there in
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philadelphia as well for his llm and for
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financial planning designations
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my new nickname for jamie is the future
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i'm going to call him jamie the future
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hopkins because he is the new face and
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voice of retirement and complaining in
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my opinion
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and the reason i can do that if they can
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call lebron james the king
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then jamie hopkins can no doubt be
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called the future welcome to fun with
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annuities
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jamie hopkins
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i love that man that the future i like
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it that's uh i don't know if i feel that
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way personally but it's a that is a
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strong introduction
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let me just tell all of the people that
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are listening out there and the ones
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that are viewing viewing this you just
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probably fainted because jamie's young
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that's the reason i call him the future
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he's been voted you know
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top dude under 40 top dude under 30 you
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know every time he'll be top dude under
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50.
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he's that guy but let's talk a little
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bit about basketball first jamie because
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if you don't know this i put myself
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through college playing basketball
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played at the university of central
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florida but uh davidson college i grew
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up in the charlotte area my parents
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actually lived in the davidson area and
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for anyone that cares about basketball
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that's where steph curry played
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um so you know we got some davidson
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stuff there and i was looking through
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your podcast where you actually
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interviewed bob mckellip which i thought
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was cool who was actually a thought
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leader and could if he ran a business
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it'd be a good one
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um but also
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food for thought my dad used to coach at
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appalachian state a long time ago ah
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yeah so
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i don't i don't know if they're in all
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the same leagues anymore um i think they
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that they were they when i was at school
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there we played them in almost
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everything
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and uh you know i think davidson has
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since switched leagues for some things
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not everything but some things they've
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moved out basketball right they shifted
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leagues but bob mckilts i mean he's like
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he was there when i was there he's been
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there a long time at davidson his his
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kids have gone through the program they
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were there when i was there and yeah we
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i had the pleasure of having him on uh
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our show framework and uh you know it's
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he's just as you said if he was a
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business owner he would run a very good
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business he's a he's a great leader of
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people and that's one of the things i
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remember from being there and just being
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around him
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and it's a tiny school right if you're
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from the charlotte area or even know
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anything about it when i was there was
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only like 1450 uh
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you know college students i think it's
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up to 1800 to 2000 now so it's grown a
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lot and it's still a tiny school but
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curry was a freshman when i was a senior
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i did get to meet him i played some
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pickups games with him i mean reality is
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i was in the the training room injured a
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lot uh you know when they're all getting
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taped up but it was funny like we didn't
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know him as steph curry then you knew
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him as dale curry's kid and that's a
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really funny thing to look back upon now
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that del curry was a great player so we
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didn't know who he was but not because
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he was supposed to be famous because his
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dad was
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but i know the story changed after that
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well let's segue from that into finances
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i know that's going to be interesting
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but watch this pivot
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how did your your sports background your
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discipline as a swimmer play into the
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success of you
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achieving what you have so far in the
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world of finance and retirement income
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planning
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is there a correlation there
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there is and i i you don't know it when
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you're going through sports exactly that
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the lessons you're learning are going to
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play dividends later on in life we
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already talked about one great coach now
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obviously i didn't play for coach
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mckillop but i i did get to spend time
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with them i also swam you brought up in
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baltimore growing up and i swam on a
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team north baltimore aquatic club nbac
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talking about another great athlete uh
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michael phelps and i grew up together
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were a month apart in age
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we were on the same team and same
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practices same lane for almost 15 years
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uh so uh coach bob bowman who's been i
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think four or five-time olympic head
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coach was my coach growing up and i
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still talked to him uh you know i text
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with him fairly frequently and uh you
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know he taught me a lot just about being
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a better person and being disciplined
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and being willing to put in the work
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when it's not fun doing the extra things
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going from good to great
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you know working on sundays when your
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competitors are sitting at home right
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training differently than other people
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are training so you know we moved away
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from a lot of static stretching back in
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the day before that was popular and i
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always tell people the story like think
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back about the nfl in the 90s and they
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had those big circles that had all been
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pulling on their legs
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and what we found out is that type of
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stretching increased injury we moved
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away from that back in the 90s so if
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people can visually remember michael
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stretching completely different right
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flapping his arms swinging them around
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and that all came from that and michael
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never really got kind of seriously
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injured throughout his entire career and
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that helped him achieve a level of
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greatness that others weren't able to
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achieve
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and a lot of those things came into me
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during my life that looking at the
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little things putting in that extra bit
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of work because a lot of people are
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pretty good at stuff not a lot of people
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are great at things and that's where
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that difference is right you can be
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pretty good and i often ask people in a
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room right oh you
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how do you feel about this are you
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pretty good yeah people kind of nod are
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you great at it a lot of people stop
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short of that right um that greatness is
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a different level of commitment and a
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lot of it's
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mental right it's not just physical i've
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talked about this many times before i
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don't know if everyone agrees with me
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anymore but you know physically i used
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to tell people michael wasn't the most
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talented swimmer i ever swam with he's
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clearly the greatest and it's not even
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close sure but he wasn't the physically
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most talented that i personally believe
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i ever swam with i could be wrong about
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that but uh you know he did all those
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extra little things that other people
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weren't doing so it was a mix of talent
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and having the right coach the right
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opportunity and the drive and being
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willing to do it when other people
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weren't and swimming's a tough sport
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mentally it's not easy because you're
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alone you're looking at a black line and
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going back and forth
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well those those extra little things you
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know stretching differently and those
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type of things
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what are some examples that when you
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look at retirement income and you
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started getting into this and and
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digging in and writing the books and and
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doing what you do
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what were the things that you started
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to see that were missing that you needed
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to adopt and you were going to tell
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people from a client standpoint that
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they needed to adopt
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yeah and we could start with some little
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things and move up from there
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there's amazingly small things that have
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a big impact which is just you know did
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you think about you know your medicare
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and i'm going through that with somebody
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right now uh and just you know making a
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better decision around medicare not just
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enrolling and trying to avoid premiums
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but actually sitting down and running it
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and looking at what prescription drugs
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you have and are those covered and those
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are small things but they can add up a
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lot and in every area of retirement that
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exists too right are you living in the
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right house or are you just living there
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because you've always lived there and
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it's way too big it's got six bedrooms
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and it's tough to keep up and you're not
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even really happy there anymore so
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thinking about your home equity and and
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what are ways to leverage that or even
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spend it down at some point in your life
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or is that your legacy asset and those
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are you know you would think that those
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are pretty basic conversations you
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should have people weren't having them
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the other one long-term care this is a
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really basic one a lot of people are
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like oh my family will help or my kids
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will be my executor and i'm always like
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have you even asked them
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like did you take the time to just ask
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your kids do they want to be their your
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executor do they want to help with your
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care and the answer is probably yes
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you're probably right if you're writing
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it down to assume it but you have you
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asked the question and put them on
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notice and have that conversation and
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those are little things and all those
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things add up and then what you see is
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you know if people aren't living the
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retirement and not having the confidence
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that they otherwise would want and end
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of day you know i've shifted my mental
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thinking about retirement a lot on this
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i used to be more of a you know think
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about things in the x's and o's and the
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numbers
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and you know is it optimal and you'll
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hear that on the you know on the
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researcher side and i've been in uh been
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a professor now for 15 years and a lot
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of my fellow researchers talked about
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optimal retirement spend down strategies
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and what i learned is most people don't
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care about optimal and you know if you
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had a less optimal retirement but they
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were happier did you do your job and i
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think the answer is probably yes like if
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you told me i'd have no more money but
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i'd be the happiest person alive for the
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rest of my life i would make that trade
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any second of the day right i mean it's
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an easy one so i think a lot of it gets
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back to how do we increase people's
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satisfaction the return on sleep ros
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which i i like that terminology return
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on sleep yeah forget roi it's ros
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interesting
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yeah i agree with that yeah well as i
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said if you you ask somebody right would
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you give up all the money and all the
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stuff you have if you were happy for the
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rest of your life and i think everyone
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most people's answer is yes right so
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that's really what we're aiming for
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right
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dollars aren't really all that important
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in of themselves is what do they allow
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us to accomplish and do right they're a
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means to an end i mean that's why you
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know dollars and monetary things were
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created not in and of themselves but to
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accomplish other goals
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the that answer is an easy answer for
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people yes i'd love to be happy but it's
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also a scary answer
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it's also falling off a cliff a little
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bit for people because it takes them out
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of their comfort zone
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how do you transition or help people
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transition
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from
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them nodding their head when you say
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would you give it all up to live a
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better life to finding that happy medium
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where they can meet you in the middle
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and go live that life
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this is a challenge for people heading
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into retirement i'm
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very simple about this and it's because
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of how we're you know conditioned it's
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how we're trained it's how we're
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educated so i i talk about this which in
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in the book but i i actually kind of
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learned some of this after i wrote the
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first edition of the book which was just
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think about what we do during our
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working years and you just have to stop
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sometime and put it down and all we're
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taught is safe we're taught to put money
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aside
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we're taught the budget which is really
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uh usually a form of making sure that
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we're saving enough right that we're not
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over spending we're not taught to spend
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down assets until we get to retirement
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and then i'd argue right we're not
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really taught it we're not even
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conditioned we're just told hey now's
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the time to spend down so we spent our
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entire lives working 30 years really
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just hoping the account goes up right we
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log into our bank to make sure it went
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up
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and that's really all we care about
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right there's been some studies from
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places internally i think wells fargo
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said like 80 or 80 some percent of
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people only log in to their account to
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make sure the money is there it's the
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only reason they log in so you look at
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something like that like that's what
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we're doing we just want to see it go up
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you know even return on investment i
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know people might care at the end of the
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year but throughout the year we just
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want to make sure the money's not gone
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and so we're taught our whole lives to
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look at this thing going up and to save
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and put money aside and then one day we
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retire very few people phase into
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retirement and now somehow we're just
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supposed to magically do something
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completely different than i did for the
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last 30 years
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honestly it doesn't make any sense to
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believe that people are going to be good
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at that right if i tell you to do
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something for 30 years you do it for 30
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years then the next day i say well now
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you need to do the opposite of that
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you just told me to only learn one thing
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for 30 years yeah we teach accumulation
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but at the end of the day it's a
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decumulation do you think we need a new
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word for that i mean the the the
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industry sometimes the retirement
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industry annuity industry
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they start speaking in their own
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language not in the consumer's language
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which i i try to speak in english out
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here with people decumulation means
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nothing to people
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in fact it sounds bad yeah most of the
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thing right actually even spend down the
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accumulation they're all they all have
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negative connotations and i'm actually
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terrible at that as i said i'm an
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academic at heart and i fall into using
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an attorney right so like we're the
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worst offenders of using our own lingo
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that means nothing to anyone else to
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make ourselves sound smarter uh yeah i
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don't even know if the term retirement
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is a great term either if you look at
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that from an accounting definition right
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it means essentially that the useful
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life of the you know object has passed
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so
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you know when you send something into
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retirement it means there's no value
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anymore and so i don't even know if
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that's a great term but that's just so
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you know the people who try to change
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that term in the sense of get rid of it
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i think it's tough because it's it's
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very ingrained not just in the united
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states but the equivalent of that word
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is used throughout the world so it's
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very hard to change that overnight now
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the income planning versus the
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accumulation spend down that's a little
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bit newer so i i do think that we could
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end up with a a word that's you know or
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a phrase that is better in that space i
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haven't tried to define that one i mean
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i did change mine right rewirement which
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i own the trademark for too good it was
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yeah because i was getting ready to call
15:29
my lawyer and say hey let's get that
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it's a good one right yeah
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and the whole point of that was that you
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know we do need to change the way we
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think about from accumulation to
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decumulation or however you want to you
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know think about it from right saving to
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spending is really what i think about
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right how do we go from a saving mindset
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to a spending mindset because that's
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really what it's about right we're
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saving to achieve some goal that we're
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spending to achieve some goal
15:56
and you know we're not all going to
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spend the same we don't all have the
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same goals but i'm very much a
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goal-based oriented
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planner if you might use that term i
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like to set goals and aim towards them
16:08
and there's a lot of behavioral research
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that supports the notion of goal setting
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and working towards something in sight
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actually working back from it is usually
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better so you know
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but it's not easy and
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that change is fundamentally right
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opposed to how people are wired for
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their entire working career i think that
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as a industry as a profession as a
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society we need to get a lot better at a
16:33
couple things one of them is a really
16:35
short simple one which we're getting
16:37
close to which is just showing people
16:38
how much income they'll have in
16:39
retirement while they're saving
16:41
that you know that's been discussed
16:42
forever and it just seems like such a
16:44
beneficial thing that we've dragged our
16:46
feet on for decades now as a as a
16:49
country now it's coming right where
16:51
we're going to see that statement inside
16:52
the 401k or otherwise but sure it
16:55
probably took way too long
16:57
you know formal phased retirements is a
17:00
really big one and i think that if we
17:02
can get there that'll be a big
17:04
behavioral one that'll be beneficial is
17:06
this expectation that people are just
17:08
supposed to retire one day they still
17:10
work a full day and the next day they're
17:11
in retirement
17:13
there's a lot of negatives with that
17:15
now retirees are on the whole happier
17:19
however you have more depressed people
17:22
in retirement than you do of the whole
17:23
population too so even though you get
17:26
more people that move upscale to a happy
17:28
level so it pulls the average up the
17:30
number of people who actually lose
17:32
meaning because their work goes away
17:34
they become more isolated also increases
17:37
and so that's a group that i think gets
17:39
lost because you see a lot of the stats
17:41
say oh retired grandparents are the
17:43
happiest people in the world true but
17:45
then there's this other group that gets
17:46
isolated that we kind of forget about
17:48
because
17:49
averages tell a terrible story and i
17:51
think that's a big group that honestly
17:53
we need to do better on helping them
17:55
find meaning sustainable income all of
17:57
those things and they're getting lost
17:59
and i
18:01
i don't i don't say that we have a
18:02
retirement crisis on our hands but
18:05
individuals obviously have retirement
18:07
crises on their hands
18:10
well and with the you know there's a
18:11
demographic title wave that's happening
18:13
with you know 10 000 baby boomers
18:15
reaching age 65 which i'm just getting
18:17
ready to say i'm i'll call that chapter
18:19
two
18:20
we can call it decumulation or second
18:23
stage but it's chapter two of your life
18:25
is what i tell people and you know being
18:28
from the south and growing up in the
18:29
south and you you'll giggle from this
18:31
because when you went to davidson you
18:32
started eating barbecue and and and you
18:34
got that twang in your voice right um i
18:37
always tell people there's new there's
18:38
no u-hauls behind hearses
18:40
and um and if you if you see one take a
18:43
picture what i'm trying to tell people
18:45
is live for the day
18:46
and and you know
18:49
covet has taught us one thing that life
18:51
is fragile
18:52
how are you
18:54
when people come to you and and they're
18:56
they're worried about retirement
18:58
um
18:59
how are you encouraging people to try to
19:01
live for the day even though they've
19:03
been box checkers and planners and
19:05
savers and scrimpers their whole life
19:07
that's who's listening to this podcast
19:09
that person that has
19:10
in their world made it to the finish
19:12
line and they've done a heck of a job
19:13
doing it
19:15
and now it kind of needs to be about
19:17
them how do you make it about them
19:20
you have to start in my view with
19:23
planning and it have to give people
19:26
confidence that where they're going they
19:28
can get there there's a lot of different
19:30
ways to do that it's not one not one way
19:33
but to show people that there's a path
19:36
to where they want to go and and
19:38
community does that for people in
19:40
certain areas right it's right why
19:41
people join things like churches why
19:44
people join things like aa because they
19:46
want to see that somebody else has done
19:48
it before
19:49
and you know working with professionals
19:52
can do that because they have worked
19:53
with hundreds or thousands or a firm
19:55
might have helped thousands of people
19:57
achieve a better retirement and so then
19:59
all of a sudden you know it's possible
20:01
and then they start showing you the
20:03
steps that you can take to be proactive
20:05
about getting there sometimes you know
20:07
some individuals just need to see
20:09
numbers run and presented back to them
20:11
and say look you actually can spend this
20:13
and here's what the data numbers and
20:15
analytics show and what you can actually
20:17
spend
20:18
and that you're not going to run out of
20:19
money and you see people who you know
20:22
save save save live their whole
20:24
retirement don't spend anything and die
20:25
with millions of dollars left over uh we
20:28
had one of our advisors recently telling
20:30
us a story about how he actually gave
20:32
one of his clients a new jacket because
20:34
the client was literally worth millions
20:36
of dollars and had worn the same jacket
20:37
for 20 some years right now and here's
20:40
the sad part when he passed away they
20:42
said they were cleaning out his home the
20:43
jacket was still wrapped up he never
20:45
unwrapped the jacket it was still in the
20:46
plastic right wouldn't even use
20:48
something that was given to him
20:50
because he was that concerned about
20:52
running out of money
20:54
and you know those things are you know
20:56
those things are always kind of sad
20:57
because you're probably not living your
20:59
best life you're probably not enjoying
21:01
things to the level that you could and i
21:03
think another big piece is you know
21:05
health is wealth so you know mental
21:07
health physical wealth i think when you
21:09
brought up the covet in this last year
21:11
and a half is you know those are
21:13
important things that you saw people
21:15
that are not here anymore that because
21:17
their health wasn't good or they passed
21:19
away and no matter how much wealth you
21:21
accumulated as you said you don't get to
21:23
take that with you uh you know maybe
21:25
ancient egyptians believe that but i
21:27
don't think most people do anymore we
21:29
don't get buried with our belongings
21:31
very often so i think part of it is
21:33
figuring out just what you want to
21:35
accomplish and i always tell people how
21:37
do you want to make those feel that you
21:39
care about when you pass away right how
21:41
do you want to make them feel
21:43
not what do you want to give them but
21:44
how do you want to make them feel do you
21:46
want them to you know say oh you know
21:48
mom and dad they were just penny
21:50
pinchers they never spent a dollar
21:52
right is that is that really how you
21:53
want to make them feel when you pass
21:55
away or that you were unplanned for your
21:57
death and i think it's a really
21:58
important question
22:00
estate planning attorneys don't ask it
22:02
very much but it's a great question to
22:03
ask yourself you know how do you want to
22:05
make people feel when you're gone
22:07
and daryl green so we talked about
22:10
sports before yeah east coast so daryl
22:12
green and i talked one time and
22:14
i actually explained to the people who
22:16
daryl green is yeah so daryl green is
22:19
the arguably i mean top three uh
22:22
cornerback ever to play in the national
22:24
football maybe the fastest person ever
22:26
in the national football league yep
22:27
arguably the fastest so i think for a
22:29
good 15 years he was something like that
22:32
he was the fastest man in the nfl they
22:34
used to race so people forget about that
22:36
but in the late 80s and 90s they used to
22:38
actually race for that title
22:40
and uh you know he yeah i think he's
22:43
maybe second or third all time from the
22:45
the clock uh going through combine-based
22:48
stuff um he's still up there in the top
22:50
three but played for washington you won
22:53
a couple super bowls played under hall
22:55
of fame coach joe gibbs who then went on
22:57
for jgr racing and uh he he told me one
23:01
time too he's one of the more humble
23:02
people i've ever met right he's in the
23:04
hall of fame
23:05
one of the top people ever to play the
23:06
game one of the fastest people ever be
23:08
alive and he's just amazingly humble
23:11
like so humble that you're like like i
23:13
want you to like tell me cool stories
23:15
about you just shutting people down but
23:17
he won't he just talks you know and it's
23:20
amazing because he said i don't want to
23:22
be remembered as a football player
23:24
because i want to be remembered as dale
23:25
green a great man oh and by the way he
23:27
he played football and i thought that
23:29
was such an amazing thing to think about
23:31
right and he he brought that up because
23:33
of jack kent cook being a football owner
23:36
and he goes sure you know i don't i
23:37
don't want to be remembered like that oh
23:39
you had all that but they think about
23:40
all the stuff he must have done in his
23:41
lifetime but he's only remembered for
23:44
owning a team
23:45
right like it is obviously important to
23:47
him but wouldn't you rather be
23:48
remembered as oh daryl green a great
23:50
person to know by the way right he was a
23:53
financial advisor right like i i think
23:56
that's a really cool way to look at
23:57
things right just how you want to be
23:59
remembered and are you going to be
24:00
remembered for the things that that you
24:02
actually want to be remembered for
24:04
or are you going to be remembered for
24:05
things that you don't necessarily care
24:07
as much that people look at you about
24:09
and
24:10
all that you know ties into your
24:12
retirement right how are you going to
24:13
live your life are you going to be
24:14
giving back or are you going to be
24:16
remembered as the person who passed away
24:17
never spent a single dollar and never
24:19
looked happy while they did it
24:21
how does jamie hopkins want to change
24:24
the game i know you're where i talk
24:25
about legacy but
24:27
what's your drive i mean what you're
24:29
getting up in the morning you're you're
24:31
you know you're a swimmer you get up
24:32
early right uh what's the drive for
24:35
jamie hopkins to change things in the
24:37
retirement income planning world which
24:39
has been static for a long long time
24:42
and you have people like you out there
24:44
and then you have really freaky people
24:46
like me that are these these you know
24:48
these other personalities that are
24:50
trying to tell the truth about these
24:51
things what are you trying to do and
24:54
change in the industry or are you
24:57
i absolutely am i you know i i i have a
25:00
number tied to it but maybe i just need
25:02
to change it there's nothing magical
25:03
about the number but i set out with uh
25:06
just putting it down one time said i'd
25:07
like to make retirement secure for more
25:10
than a million americans and there's no
25:12
reason it only has to be americans or
25:14
that it only has to be limited to a
25:16
million people but it it felt good at
25:18
the beginning
25:19
the reality is actually you know if i
25:21
could track stuff maybe i've already had
25:23
an impact on a million people i don't
25:24
know but uh the drive behind it's a very
25:27
simple uh but also complex story which
25:30
just goes back to my family it's
25:32
personal and
25:33
i you know eight years old i'll do the
25:36
quick version of this but
25:37
this is this is the part that my my
25:40
listeners want to know
25:41
and i'm assuming a lot of your customers
25:43
would be interested in knowing and i
25:45
want to know how you tick so yeah go go
25:48
deep as you want to go yeah so um you
25:50
know i grew up outside baltimore uh
25:52
neither one of my parents graduated from
25:54
college my dad did roofing
25:56
uh gutters fascia siding all stuff high
25:59
up on the ladder my mom helped run a
26:01
business with them so that's what they
26:03
did
26:04
and i was eight years old my dad goes up
26:06
on a ladder it starts to rain
26:08
temperatures drop and you know aluminum
26:10
ladders freeze over faster than a roof
26:12
does so he's coming down he slips falls
26:15
and passes away right there um you know
26:18
all of a sudden then my mom who you know
26:20
how old were you jamie eight years old
26:22
so i've got a four younger sisters i'm
26:24
eight neither parent graduated college
26:26
no life insurance right no term policy
26:28
now this is the you know i don't go out
26:30
and sell insurance today i'm not a
26:32
licensed insurance agent okay uh so this
26:35
is not a sales pitch for term but i
26:37
always tell people that's the you know
26:39
my family i would have been better off
26:41
my mom would have been better off and
26:42
that's the perfect example right you got
26:44
you got you know essentially one income
26:47
earner in the sense of right is the one
26:50
out there doing the work now my mom was
26:52
earning income and she still is actually
26:53
running that business today um you know
26:56
37 years later or whatever
26:59
but right at that moment there was no
27:02
one else to go out and do the work right
27:03
you can't you can't make money doing
27:05
construction if nobody can go out and do
27:07
the work it's the perfect person to have
27:10
term insurance you got young kids
27:11
high-risk job you know no college and
27:14
they didn't have that planning that
27:15
planning didn't get to people in the
27:17
construction world right it doesn't
27:18
really today either the industry is not
27:20
set up to to get advice down to people
27:23
like that that definitely need it and
27:24
even simple pieces of advice
27:26
so you fast forward and you know
27:29
kind of uh i got a lot of great
27:31
opportunities my mom kept working she
27:33
put us through college i got
27:35
opportunities to get scholarships i was
27:37
a good enough swimmer to get a
27:38
scholarship i wasn't a great swimmer i
27:41
went to a great school though davidson
27:43
um got to you know go to law school took
27:45
out a bunch of loans like a lot of other
27:47
people and uh just started seeing tv ads
27:50
and started seeing the tv ads and say
27:52
come do your retirement planning here
27:53
with us and i kept thinking what does
27:55
somebody like my mom do who's never had
27:57
a pension who's never had a 401k um you
28:00
know who didn't have an ira at that time
28:01
and what do they do um they're gonna be
28:03
very reliant on social security and
28:05
medicare and their home and you know
28:08
that's the reality of where my mom is
28:10
today
28:11
uh but you
28:13
i started seeing that and then i got the
28:14
opportunity to clerk in the appellate
28:16
division and one of the cases i got to
28:18
work on was one of bernie madoff's cases
28:21
and uh it showed you the opposite of
28:23
what you would like to see in this
28:24
profession right which that was the
28:26
abuse of trust
28:28
versus the trusted advisor who is
28:31
actually helping people move forward and
28:33
um you know it just kind of all the
28:35
pieces were starting to click then that
28:37
there was this huge right you just see
28:39
the data and you said the 10 000 hitting
28:41
65 every day and you saw the data you
28:44
saw these tv ads every time you turned
28:46
on the tv there was a fidelity or other
28:48
ad on there they did good ads but i just
28:50
knew that there was a gap out there and
28:52
then i um you know i did some estate
28:54
planning work i worked on some pension
28:56
cases i worked in private equity and
28:59
then eventually i got an opportunity to
29:01
kind of shift specifically into the
29:03
income planning field and i spent seven
29:05
years at american college uh with my
29:08
co-director there david lately building
29:10
out the ricp for people who don't know
29:12
that retirement income certified
29:14
professional and over seven years we we
29:17
uh impacted right around 18 000
29:20
financial advisors and agents had went
29:22
through that sure
29:23
you know college program and that's a
29:26
lot um to put that in perspective it was
29:28
more during that stretch than we're
29:29
going into the cfp so
29:32
but it you know that's not because i'm
29:34
magic or david was magic we were in the
29:36
right space at the right time and
29:38
everyone was saying come work with this
29:39
but nobody was really doing training and
29:42
education and research on it and it's
29:44
it's it's done very well and so it's you
29:46
know if you think about you know i i
29:48
don't know what the numbers are now i've
29:49
been gone for three years
29:52
and i
29:53
for professorship at creighton and then
29:54
i joined carson because i actually had
29:57
another insight my other insight was i
29:59
had an advisor that went through and he
30:02
came to a presentation later on of mine
30:04
and i was presenting on roth conversions
30:06
and some tax efficient uh ways to manage
30:09
a retirement income portfolio
30:11
and i think i saw him two years again
30:13
later i think it was two years and he
30:15
comes up to me goes jamie do you have
30:16
that slide deck from that presentation
30:18
two years ago
30:20
they go yeah i could get it too because
30:21
yeah there was a lot of stuff i wanted
30:23
to implement from that but never really
30:24
got around to it and i just remember
30:26
thinking like this is depressing right
30:29
there's this person who went through
30:30
this program great he did that he showed
30:32
up to another presentation still
30:33
interested in it but somehow two years
30:36
had passed
30:37
and he hadn't actually taken any of that
30:39
and put it into practice
30:40
and it was depressing for me because i
30:42
thought you know here i am i'm educating
30:44
i'm helping advisors get better and then
30:46
i realize that unless i take another
30:48
step forward and i'm actually able to
30:50
create the systems and the processes
30:52
that help them implement this with the
30:55
clients
30:56
i'm educating but i'm not changing and
30:59
obviously education is very important
31:00
but i have personally um you know i i'm
31:03
big supporter of education but i've also
31:05
personally changed my mindset on that
31:07
that at one point i thought you could
31:08
just educate people
31:10
and the world would change
31:13
and now i know education is a piece of
31:15
it it's not the solution and
31:17
interestingly enough there's actually a
31:19
ton of research which i didn't know at
31:20
the time about how uh ineffective
31:23
education alone is in most areas right
31:26
that it does need to be coupled with
31:28
opportunity systems processes you know
31:30
uh but education is still important and
31:33
it's also it's often a very cost
31:35
effective way to do things and implement
31:37
change right building technology and
31:39
systems to get people into is very
31:40
expensive educating people tends to be
31:43
fairly cheap in comparison so i i looked
31:47
out for a place that i thought was just
31:48
interesting and was building systems
31:51
that would help advisors create more
31:53
secure retirement for their clients and
31:56
i found carson and ended up joining here
31:59
and have spent three years here now
32:01
feeling like we're doing that
32:03
and you know we've uh you know we impact
32:05
a lot of households is the way we look
32:07
at things at our firm we have served 39
32:10
000 households now which is a lot so i'm
32:14
not at the million internally yet but uh
32:17
you know that's a lot of individuals uh
32:19
getting help and a lot more people still
32:21
need it though right when you think
32:22
about that number as the grand scheme of
32:24
the world it's not even a percent of a
32:26
percent right it's a a very small piece
32:29
of the overall pie
32:31
but that's what makes it easy for me so
32:33
if you get back to the end of the day
32:35
people are like well you work pretty
32:36
hard jamie and you get up early and you
32:38
work late and all these different things
32:40
that i'm involved with it's easy because
32:43
what i tell people is my what you know
32:44
my why makes me cry it's very easy i'll
32:46
never i'll never have a moment in my
32:48
life where you know where i'm like i
32:49
don't want to work anymore i don't want
32:51
to do that because it's very easy you
32:53
think about your mom and your dad and
32:54
your dad passed away in your aid and
32:56
leaving your family in that situation
32:58
your mom's struggling for all those
32:59
years i'm never gonna get tired of that
33:01
i'm never gonna not have that as a
33:03
driving factor and so when we you know
33:06
when i coach people too i always say
33:08
that right find a why that makes you cry
33:10
and
33:11
if you have that right you'll be able to
33:13
outwork other people and i know a lot of
33:15
people think they work hard
33:17
but typically people who have that why
33:20
deeply rooted they understand it they
33:22
can go back to it they pull from it like
33:25
a well they can outwork other people and
33:27
a lot of it just comes down to that are
33:28
you willing to put in the extra and
33:30
that's that's my driving why so it's uh
33:32
you know it's personal and it's i think
33:34
most wise should be right great great
33:37
background great foundation for the
33:40
listeners and viewers the why that makes
33:42
you cry can that be applied to the
33:44
retiree or the person going towards
33:47
retirement planning for retirement
33:50
can you explain what and give some
33:52
examples possibly of the why that makes
33:54
you cry for people that are going to
33:56
chapter two of their life
33:58
absolutely i mean you can use that in
34:00
any area of your life
34:02
it just takes work it takes work on
34:04
driving down into yourself and
34:07
understanding what makes you click what
34:08
you're afraid of
34:10
so a great example of this is i was
34:12
talking to dr brad klontz one time who's
34:14
a fantastic author and writer and he was
34:17
talking about i think it's his great
34:19
grandmother right um was you know super
34:22
conservative with her spending and how
34:24
she approached things and even some of
34:26
that still impacts him today
34:28
and you know you can look at things like
34:30
that like you know maybe you have a
34:32
family member you don't want to be like
34:33
and you don't want to live the life that
34:35
they did or as i said you know you want
34:38
to change like you're very involved with
34:40
your church and you want to leave a
34:42
lasting legacy and impact so how are you
34:44
going to live your retirement to
34:45
actually give back and make meaningful
34:47
change there and if you every day you
34:49
wake up and say you know what i'm doing
34:50
something positive today with my life
34:52
and i'm living my retirement in a way
34:54
that's going to you know show the change
34:56
that i want to have or
34:58
maybe your parents or grandparents
35:00
passed away when you're young and you
35:01
didn't get to spend time with you know
35:02
you never got to spend time with your
35:04
grandparents and you want to make sure
35:06
that your grandchildren have that time
35:08
with you i mean that's a why that would
35:09
make you cry right being able to have
35:11
grandchildren that grow up you know
35:13
loving the experiences that they had
35:15
with you and that's how you design where
35:18
you want to live how you want to spend
35:19
your time and so i think all of those
35:22
right they can be different there's not
35:23
one answer for anyone there but i do
35:26
think if you get to retirement and you
35:27
say i have zero passions and i don't
35:29
have anything i care about right like
35:31
you're not gonna live a great retirement
35:32
right um whatever it might be like find
35:35
that piece then it might be you know
35:38
whatever it is for you i mean i think
35:39
that's deeply personal it's also why all
35:41
this stuff is called personal finance
35:43
because it's about you it's personal um
35:46
you know one of uh my friends paul west
35:48
always when he does presentations on
35:49
this he holds up his thumb and he says
35:51
what's this you know it's my thumbprint
35:53
it's unique to me just like your
35:54
retirement will be unique to you
35:58
i love that because the whole why that
36:00
makes you cry um
36:02
you know we could people talk about
36:04
money and get caught up in roi and get
36:06
caught up in what they have and can it
36:07
cover for long-term care and all the
36:09
stuff
36:11
but but i
36:12
totally agree with you as part of the
36:15
and i hate that we use the word holistic
36:17
but part of the whole planning
36:20
for people's retirement
36:22
um should involve the passion what's the
36:24
passion what are you doing you know what
36:27
just because you retire passion is not
36:28
flipping channels unless you're
36:31
you know professional channel flipper
36:33
and work for nielsen right i mean if
36:34
that's your passion but when you when
36:36
you're advising um
36:38
clients and working with the advisors
36:40
that were
36:42
at the firm you're with
36:44
are you always making sure that they're
36:46
asking that why
36:47
and making sure that there's a reason
36:50
for what's being done other than just
36:52
numbers in return
36:55
yeah so our you know process that we we
36:58
call the proven process internally which
37:01
is you know always working with people
37:04
on the emotional and soft
37:07
you know soft aspect of this first but
37:10
you do really have to dive in to
37:11
understand what's people's relationship
37:13
with their money what are their goals
37:15
you know how do they feel about things
37:17
versus just hopping in and saying hey
37:20
here's the numbers and uh our ceo talks
37:22
about it a lot he's like if you live and
37:24
die off the returns right you can't
37:26
control that end of day right returns
37:28
are going to be for the most part what
37:30
returns are and we're not out there
37:32
trying to outperform the market on
37:34
returns now there's a whole world out
37:35
there that's trying to do that and it's
37:37
not us and if you're looking for that
37:38
you got to go elsewhere and look for it
37:40
right if you think that there's magic
37:41
out there that you know that's that's
37:43
what you're looking for and some people
37:45
do right i mean there are there are
37:47
there's a portion of the world that's
37:48
looking for that and there'll be a
37:50
market then that serves you but it's not
37:51
kind of where planning lies the planning
37:53
doesn't lie in the notion of we're gonna
37:56
you know somehow find magic and you know
37:58
provide better returns or whatever it
38:00
might be so it's getting back to the
38:02
individuals starting with the proven
38:04
process working on um you know planning
38:07
and just seeing what does true wealth
38:10
mean to you and so that's a term we use
38:12
a lot here too is true wealth and if you
38:15
kind of think about like the the
38:17
hierarchy of needs which a lot of people
38:19
might remember from school which is you
38:21
know you take care of your bases and you
38:23
build off of it up until something
38:24
that's a little bit more you know
38:26
spiritual or detached from
38:29
the basics that you need and honestly
38:31
that can be applied to finances too that
38:33
you have to take care of your basic
38:35
income needs and spending needs
38:37
you know your food your health care your
38:39
housing your taxes and you build upon
38:41
that to get to the things that you know
38:43
might be legacy or meaning in your life
38:46
but you have to talk about those because
38:47
if you don't talk about them like what
38:49
are we doing there like why are we why
38:51
are we here to do planning
38:53
and you know i think all those questions
38:55
you know about family is important about
38:59
loss about legacy about how you want to
39:02
make others feel like why are you here
39:04
today at all i mean if it's you know
39:06
somebody says i'm here today because i
39:08
want better returns than my neighbor i
39:10
mean
39:12
that's that's a pretty short-sighted uh
39:14
view of the world so
39:16
i think helping people on that is often
39:18
good and a lot of people haven't done
39:20
that work either they haven't put in
39:22
that time and you know
39:24
you can view this relationship as a as a
39:27
coaching relationship in a lot of cases
39:29
too financial coaching is a term that's
39:32
out there now too
39:34
and some people need that and they need
39:35
to change their relationship with money
39:37
where they've come from an area of
39:40
stress and
39:42
you know not an abundance mindset and
39:45
they need to change they need to
39:47
fundamentally go back to that
39:48
relationship and change it and that
39:50
requires coaching it's not just planning
39:52
it requires having conversations and
39:54
thinking about what was your first
39:56
experience with money well it was being
39:58
on food stamps and not having enough
39:59
money okay well you're gonna approach
40:01
things differently than somebody else
40:03
who grew up wealthy and didn't have to
40:04
struggle and has always had an abundance
40:06
mindset and can spend spend spend
40:08
because they've never you know feel felt
40:11
the pain of being without money and so
40:13
those are those require different
40:15
approaches
40:17
looking at just retirement income
40:19
planning um what are some of the
40:21
misconceptions biases that you run
40:23
across that you're trying to clarify
40:25
with your work
40:27
yeah there's been a lot out there i
40:29
think one of them was that this
40:32
retirement income
40:34
you know
40:35
issue was somehow related to a lack of
40:38
financial literacy uh that's actually a
40:40
bias that we can kind of prove isn't
40:42
really the case now there is uh like an
40:45
income literacy gap out there and i know
40:48
people we've been talking about terms
40:49
people don't love literacy is a term
40:51
that p not everybody loves but it's one
40:53
that at least people understand what
40:54
we're talking about use it so for
40:57
purposes of conversation it functions uh
40:59
well as a communication tool
41:02
but if you look at people nearing
41:04
retirement we actually see most
41:06
americans have gained some sense of
41:07
financial literacy it does not mean
41:10
though that they're good at income
41:11
planning those are two different things
41:13
they're very different the testing for
41:15
both like we understand compound
41:17
interest and the value of savings and
41:19
long-term growth by the time we get to
41:21
retirement um
41:23
so that's a good thing but the flip side
41:25
is americans don't exhibit much
41:27
retirement income literacy and again it
41:29
makes sense because they haven't
41:31
experienced it
41:32
so i do think that that is a
41:34
juxtaposition that not a lot of people
41:36
get that i might be financial literate
41:38
but it doesn't mean i'm retirement
41:40
income literate and those are two
41:41
different things
41:43
the other one is i think there's a big
41:45
misconception about longevity and what
41:47
does that even mean
41:49
and what we do see there's a lot of data
41:51
that'll show people tend to
41:53
underestimate their own life expectancy
41:55
right we think we're gonna die earlier
41:58
than we're going to but at the same time
42:00
we also act as if we're immortal and
42:02
won't get sick and won't need long-term
42:04
care so we we have this very weird piece
42:07
right like well i'm obviously not going
42:08
to live to 90 but i'm not going to need
42:10
long-term care either and i'm like well
42:13
how are we playing both of these wrong
42:15
right
42:16
and so some things are just reframing
42:19
how you ask questions there and you know
42:22
if you're alive at 65 you're a couple
42:24
right it's more likely than not that one
42:26
of the two of you will be alive at you
42:27
know 90 95. you start looking at the
42:30
numbers like that and then you said like
42:32
if there was a greater than 50 percent
42:34
chance you'd be alive at this date would
42:35
you plan for it and if the answer is yes
42:37
then we need to change our planning
42:39
and if you frame the question like that
42:42
people answer yes if you say you expect
42:44
to live to 90 many fewer people say yes
42:47
so some of that is just you know that's
42:49
framing it's how information is
42:50
presented you changes your outcome and
42:53
that is truly what is considered
42:55
actually an irrational decision do you
42:57
make a decision differently just based
42:59
on the way that information is presented
43:01
so i think as an industry we've
43:02
presented information uh kind of
43:05
improperly for a long time even
43:08
something
43:09
you'll appreciate this one like
43:11
deferring social security
43:13
is uh i believe that we've kind of
43:15
messed that up because we've presented
43:17
the information incorrectly we always
43:19
tell people hey if you defer you get
43:21
eight percent more
43:22
well what are we telling people we're
43:23
saying take on additional risk to get a
43:26
higher guarantee exactly
43:28
well we know that people actually don't
43:30
chase
43:31
on average people don't like to chase
43:33
risk for higher return we'll chase risk
43:35
to get rid of loss
43:37
and we like to lock in
43:40
gains right like we want the certainty
43:42
of gain but we'll take risks to avoid
43:44
loss
43:45
it's a little bit odd but it is how
43:46
people react so telling people to defer
43:49
meaning i will skip my guarantees and i
43:52
will take on the risk of dying next year
43:54
to receive a gain is the incorrect way
43:56
to look at it what we need to present it
43:58
is you know if you claim today here's
44:01
how much total income you would be
44:02
giving up in your life that is a better
44:05
way to present it to most people not
44:07
everybody but to most people but it's
44:09
not how it's done right it's not how we
44:10
present anything um in that fashion and
44:13
so there are little things like that
44:15
those are learning how people react to
44:17
information and reframing those points
44:21
so you know deferral secure income
44:24
we talked about longevity and long-term
44:27
care all of those can be presented in
44:29
better ways to actually get people to
44:31
act upon them versus how we approach it
44:34
today which is more fear driven which is
44:36
a motivating factor but it's not as
44:38
powerful as some of the other ones that
44:39
we could use
44:41
you and we had weight foul on recently
44:43
and and um one of his books that i just
44:45
found fascinating was the you know the
44:47
the reverse mortgage book and i know
44:50
that you are one of the few handful of
44:51
people that
44:53
bravely address that and take the
44:55
pioneers take all the arrows right um
44:58
can you kind of explain how that works
45:01
from the standpoint of just how you
45:03
introduce that to people because i know
45:05
annuities get a bad rap and a lot of
45:07
that's deserved on some of the sales
45:09
practices that are going on out there
45:11
um but in the reverse mortgage side
45:14
um you know wade has a good take on that
45:16
i'd like to hear your take on that as
45:18
well
45:19
yeah so you know dr wade fowle and i are
45:22
pretty good friends he wrote the forge
45:23
of my book i was part of the college
45:27
in the income center when we hired him
45:29
to bring him in and he actually uh you
45:31
know that that's an area you said the
45:33
future right he was the future of the
45:35
program when i stepped out he was uh
45:37
right there behind me and stepped in as
45:38
a director and uh
45:41
so wade and i uh while we were at the
45:43
college we became involved with a group
45:45
at the time which was called the the
45:47
funding longevity task force and it was
45:49
a group of academics where we joke
45:52
eggheads that uh just talked about
45:54
reverse mortgages and started to be this
45:56
early group of researchers dr barry
45:59
sacks uh dr john salter at texas tech
46:02
and barry sachs is one of the more
46:03
intelligent people i've ever met i don't
46:05
know how many of these people i believe
46:07
he has a phd from mit and a jd from
46:11
harvard there's only you know what i
46:13
don't know how many of those there are
46:14
but it's a pretty good combo yeah yeah
46:18
so he's he's at least good at research
46:21
right um at a minimum and exactly uh
46:24
he's a very humble person he's one of
46:26
those people that also teaches you that
46:27
the smartest person in the room never
46:29
actually thinks they're the smartest
46:30
person in the room right if you asked
46:32
are you above or below average
46:33
intelligence he might put his hand up on
46:36
average intelligence and you're just
46:37
looking at him going barry there's
46:39
nothing average about you my friend
46:42
so this group came together and um you
46:45
know it was kind of based off of this
46:48
notion that that popped up two
46:49
researchers uh barry sacks and his
46:51
brother and john salter and harold
46:53
levinsky and for people who are
46:55
listening you don't have to worry about
46:56
who these people are they're just the
46:57
names of the researchers so we had two
47:00
groups in the same year that ended up
47:02
doing research about reverse mortgages
47:04
and the use of them because everything
47:06
was an even finra one of the regulating
47:08
bodies here in the financial industry
47:10
said use reverse mortgages as a last
47:13
resort that's been the status quo for a
47:15
long time right and so you got academics
47:18
that just decided to go test this
47:20
and what they found was that that was
47:23
wrong
47:24
that they're like none of the mass
47:26
supported it
47:27
and you know now it seems common sense
47:29
that obviously the mass shouldn't
47:30
support it but at the time people just
47:32
hadn't tested it and interestingly
47:34
enough this is the best thing for
47:35
academic research is that both of the
47:37
studies were occurring at the same time
47:39
unknown to each other and had similar
47:41
outcomes why is that really important in
47:44
the research world because it means that
47:45
we didn't have the bias of one existing
47:48
and impacting the research of future
47:50
researchers so while they were published
47:53
not at the exact same time they actually
47:55
finished their outcomes and were in
47:57
journal publication at the same time
47:59
which is huge and what those that
48:01
research found at the time was instead
48:04
of using home equity and reverse
48:06
mortgages as a line of last resort in
48:08
most situations you're going to be
48:10
better off using it early in retirement
48:14
and there's a basic fundamental
48:16
principle that underlies all this and i
48:18
always do this let's say we had three
48:20
assets one's gonna grow at three percent
48:23
one's gonna grow at five percent one's
48:24
going to grow at eight percent
48:27
and you get to retirement stand and i
48:28
say here's your three assets we got your
48:30
three percent bucket you're five percent
48:32
and you're eight percent
48:34
you choose which one to spend first and
48:36
how do you want to end up with the most
48:37
money which bucket do you spend first
48:39
you spend down your highest earning
48:41
asset first no of course not you leave
48:43
that for as long as possible do you set
48:45
your second highest earning asset
48:47
next no you probably don't you probably
48:49
spend what you spend your lowest earning
48:51
asset first right
48:53
it makes perfect you know all else being
48:55
equal makes perfect sense
48:57
well essentially houses you look at the
48:59
shiller index growth about three percent
49:01
historical right throughout the course
49:03
of the united states bonds were closer
49:05
to four to five percent equities are
49:06
closer to eight depending on which
49:08
equities you're looking at
49:10
okay so if we get to retirement should
49:12
we keep our home to our final asset that
49:14
really all homes do historically is keep
49:17
pace with inflation
49:18
well actually we shouldn't because on
49:20
average that is going to keep our worst
49:22
performing return asset the longest and
49:25
spend down our other assets first
49:27
and so what the research essentially
49:30
found was use reverse mortgages and
49:32
downturns
49:34
right earlier in retirement or to help
49:37
defer the spending of other assets right
49:39
so if the market drops instead of
49:42
spending a bunch of your
49:44
right equities and bonds pool from your
49:47
home pool from your equity through a
49:49
reverse mortgage versus spending down
49:52
your stocks and bonds early during
49:54
volatile time periods and leaving your
49:55
home to the end and that's what they've
49:57
kind of deemed as the coordinated
49:59
strategy coordinating your home equity
50:02
distributions and spending along with
50:04
your other assets and you use the term
50:06
earlier it's a holistic approach
50:09
and honestly
50:10
there are very few
50:12
things in the world that i've ever seen
50:14
where just leaving something alone and
50:17
doing nothing with it is the best
50:19
strategy
50:21
right typically doing something is
50:24
better than doing nothing so it actually
50:26
makes perfect sense that some
50:27
coordination between the assets is
50:29
probably better than doing absolutely
50:32
nothing with it and that is what the
50:34
research has found
50:36
now uh telling the story of that group
50:38
it's obviously progressed a lot the laws
50:40
and the rules have changed the
50:42
researchers got in deeper and deeper
50:44
that group uh moved from there to part
50:46
of the american college when wade and i
50:48
were there and then when i left um i
50:50
kind of i guess shepherded it away
50:54
in a sense because i wasn't going to be
50:55
there anymore
50:57
wade's still part of it and we took it
50:59
to university of illinois and it is a
51:01
part of the university of illinois and
51:02
we still do research out of there it's
51:04
grown a little bit
51:06
where we've got some former hud members
51:08
and uh
51:10
additional researchers that have joined
51:12
since then
51:13
and it has broadened we do look at home
51:15
equity um it really it's uh you know it
51:18
is really the initiative now is around
51:20
home equity right and income planning
51:23
but
51:24
it's a big miss for a lot of people is
51:26
just having a bias against the product
51:28
now i agree the same way and i've said
51:30
this many times both about annuities and
51:32
reverse forages i believe both products
51:35
have been oversold and underutilized
51:38
which means i don't love the sales
51:39
practices and there were a lot of uh in
51:42
the reverse spaces especially one of the
51:44
issues was people were compensated based
51:47
off of the dollar amount that you pulled
51:49
out of the loan
51:50
that actually doesn't tie to any best
51:52
practices of research i mean and the
51:54
clear bias there is if i am a loan
51:56
officer there and that's how i'm
51:57
compensated i'm trying to get you to
51:58
pull all the money out by day one even
52:00
if you need it or don't need it that's
52:02
obviously not a good practice and i
52:03
don't support it
52:05
but you know integration of home equity
52:08
and retirement planning is important
52:10
the american dream can turn into the
52:12
american stream right
52:15
i'm always thinking about marketing how
52:17
do you how do you frame it in english
52:19
too
52:20
so that people understand it but
52:22
i haven't even gotten to the list of
52:25
topics so that means you have to come
52:26
back on in the future jamie the truth
52:30
but um any last i got to kind of close
52:33
it up because uh you know people have to
52:35
get off the treadmill um or get out of
52:37
their car so what any any sage advice
52:40
for the listeners and viewers from jamie
52:42
the truth hopkins
52:44
well i thought it was the future now i'm
52:46
you know paul pierce the truth the truth
52:49
it is you are the future no and all
52:51
kidding you are the future and and i say
52:54
that
52:54
with respect but also the fact that i
52:57
think you're kind of like me you're very
52:59
serious about what you do but you don't
53:01
take yourself too seriously yeah well i
53:03
would say here's here's something i give
53:05
to everyone i write this in the book two
53:07
requirement which is challenge what you
53:09
think is true
53:10
okay there are lots of examples of
53:13
things we know to be true that we're
53:14
wrong about and i use this example as
53:16
more of a you know normal one because
53:18
everyone knows the answer
53:21
what's the one thing stan you know about
53:23
napoleon
53:25
i'm taller than he is
53:28
right everybody knows that napoleon
53:31
right or most people
53:33
was uh a shorter you know a short person
53:36
right there's a napoleon complex named
53:38
after it
53:39
vertically challenged is what i call it
53:41
right right
53:43
and then here's the thing we know as a
53:45
fact that napoleon was an above average
53:47
height individual
53:49
he was in he was an above average height
53:51
person
53:53
and all of a sudden you're like no no
53:55
they can't be true they can go look it
53:56
up we've got all that you know they have
53:58
everything about it the only reason we
54:00
believe that napoleon was short
54:02
was because of british propaganda during
54:04
the war they drew him as a tiny short
54:06
fat guy on the horse to discredit him
54:10
very nice i said it with confidence
54:11
because i'm six six so i'm pretty sure
54:14
oh yeah no i could post him up and score
54:16
at will
54:17
on him on napoleon
54:19
you you easily could have posted him up
54:21
and remember everybody was sure and then
54:22
some people bring it up well you know he
54:24
was only five foot six or whatever i'm
54:26
like but that's irrelevant because at
54:28
the time he was
54:29
a taller person right he would be a six
54:31
foot one person today
54:33
you know so no napoleon wasn't short but
54:36
everybody believes that to be true i
54:38
mean you probably could even get a
54:39
jeopardy question which what is you know
54:41
and get that one wrong and those things
54:43
are amazing to me and the fact that we
54:45
just believe that they're true we don't
54:47
challenge things that is true all across
54:49
the board you believe that reverse
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mortgages are bad and evil products in
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hate it that much or you need to call
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the government and cancel the payments
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jamie the future i really appreciate it
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want to get into
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a lot more details but um i really
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i've certainly been a follower of your
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