080 Jamie Hopkins: Retirement Planning And The Why That Makes You Cry

October 26, 2021
56 min
080 Jamie Hopkins: Retirement Planning And The Why That Makes You Cry
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IN THIS EPISODE, THE ANNUITY MAN AND JAMIE HOPKINS DISCUSS:
- ROS - Return on Sleep
- From an accumulation to a decumulation mindset
- Living your retirement meaningfully
- Changing your relationship with money

KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- People often don’t care about optimal, people care about being happy. Giving people a good retirement experience, a Return On Sleep, is better than giving optimal results.
- Point your focus towards what you’re planning to work towards or what you want to acquire - accumulating money isn’t going to do you any good if you don’t convert it into anything that will make your retirement a joyful experience.
- If you go into retirement and end up not having any passion for anything or not having anything you care about, you’re not gonna have a great retirement - whatever it might be, find that piece that will make your retirement meaningful for you. That’s true wealth.
- Think about rewiring your preconceptions around money and wealth - it takes more than planning, it takes coaching and being aware of the misconceptions that you hold.

"Would you give up all your money if it means that you’ll be happy for the rest of your life? Most people would say yes - that’s what we’re aiming for. Dollars are a means to an end." — Jamie Hopkins

Connect with Jamie Hopkins:
Website: https://www.jamiehopkins.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-hopkins-esq-llm-cfp%C2%AE-chfc%C2%AE-clu%C2%AE-ricp%C2%AE-022a502a/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/RetirementRisks
Book: https://www.jamiehopkins.com/book/

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welcome to fun with annuities i'm your

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host stan the annuity man america's

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today welcome to everyone on all the

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annuity man but the fun with annuities

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youtube channels is fun as well because

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you get to see

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me and the guests interacting

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um but welcome let me introduce our

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guest so we can get right to it because

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i want to pick his brain clean before he

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gets off of this podcast his name is

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jamie hopkins we're going to have his um

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his website and how to get in touch with

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him how to buy his books and all that

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stuff on my site he'll have a permanent

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page on my site

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just like all of our celebrity guests

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he's the managing partner of wealth

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solutions he's a

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finance professor of practice at

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creighton university's hydro college of

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business

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he's also a nationally recognized writer

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and researcher you might have read his

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stuff in forbes investment news and

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marketwatch just to name a few he's

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co-authored three textbooks

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and has two e-books on retirement

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planning he's also the author of a book

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he wrote in 2018 which i love the title

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rewirement not retirement but rewirement

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the rewiring rewiring the way you think

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about retirement it's a fantastic book

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once again we'll have that on our site

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you can link and buy that as well he

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received his bachelor of arts degree in

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political science at davidson college

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in north carolina where he was captain

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of the division one

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varsity men's swim team which tells if

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you if you know anything about that

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discipline that kind of tells you who he

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is

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he attended the villanova school of law

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where he earned his jd in grad and

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graduated there with honors he also went

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to temple university there in

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philadelphia as well for his llm and for

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financial planning designations

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my new nickname for jamie is the future

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i'm going to call him jamie the future

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hopkins because he is the new face and

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voice of retirement and complaining in

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my opinion

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and the reason i can do that if they can

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call lebron james the king

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then jamie hopkins can no doubt be

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called the future welcome to fun with

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annuities

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jamie hopkins

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i love that man that the future i like

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it that's uh i don't know if i feel that

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way personally but it's a that is a

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strong introduction

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let me just tell all of the people that

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are listening out there and the ones

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that are viewing viewing this you just

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probably fainted because jamie's young

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that's the reason i call him the future

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he's been voted you know

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top dude under 40 top dude under 30 you

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know every time he'll be top dude under

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50.

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he's that guy but let's talk a little

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bit about basketball first jamie because

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if you don't know this i put myself

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through college playing basketball

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played at the university of central

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florida but uh davidson college i grew

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up in the charlotte area my parents

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actually lived in the davidson area and

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for anyone that cares about basketball

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that's where steph curry played

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um so you know we got some davidson

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stuff there and i was looking through

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your podcast where you actually

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interviewed bob mckellip which i thought

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was cool who was actually a thought

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leader and could if he ran a business

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it'd be a good one

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um but also

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food for thought my dad used to coach at

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appalachian state a long time ago ah

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yeah so

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i don't i don't know if they're in all

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the same leagues anymore um i think they

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that they were they when i was at school

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there we played them in almost

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everything

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and uh you know i think davidson has

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since switched leagues for some things

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not everything but some things they've

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moved out basketball right they shifted

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leagues but bob mckilts i mean he's like

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he was there when i was there he's been

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there a long time at davidson his his

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kids have gone through the program they

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were there when i was there and yeah we

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i had the pleasure of having him on uh

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our show framework and uh you know it's

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he's just as you said if he was a

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business owner he would run a very good

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business he's a he's a great leader of

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people and that's one of the things i

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remember from being there and just being

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around him

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and it's a tiny school right if you're

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from the charlotte area or even know

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anything about it when i was there was

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only like 1450 uh

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you know college students i think it's

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up to 1800 to 2000 now so it's grown a

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lot and it's still a tiny school but

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curry was a freshman when i was a senior

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i did get to meet him i played some

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pickups games with him i mean reality is

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i was in the the training room injured a

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lot uh you know when they're all getting

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taped up but it was funny like we didn't

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know him as steph curry then you knew

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him as dale curry's kid and that's a

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really funny thing to look back upon now

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that del curry was a great player so we

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didn't know who he was but not because

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he was supposed to be famous because his

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dad was

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but i know the story changed after that

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well let's segue from that into finances

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i know that's going to be interesting

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but watch this pivot

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how did your your sports background your

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discipline as a swimmer play into the

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success of you

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achieving what you have so far in the

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world of finance and retirement income

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planning

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is there a correlation there

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there is and i i you don't know it when

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you're going through sports exactly that

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the lessons you're learning are going to

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play dividends later on in life we

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already talked about one great coach now

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obviously i didn't play for coach

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mckillop but i i did get to spend time

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with them i also swam you brought up in

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baltimore growing up and i swam on a

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team north baltimore aquatic club nbac

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talking about another great athlete uh

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michael phelps and i grew up together

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were a month apart in age

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we were on the same team and same

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practices same lane for almost 15 years

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uh so uh coach bob bowman who's been i

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think four or five-time olympic head

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coach was my coach growing up and i

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still talked to him uh you know i text

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with him fairly frequently and uh you

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know he taught me a lot just about being

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a better person and being disciplined

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and being willing to put in the work

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when it's not fun doing the extra things

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going from good to great

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you know working on sundays when your

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competitors are sitting at home right

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training differently than other people

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are training so you know we moved away

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from a lot of static stretching back in

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the day before that was popular and i

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always tell people the story like think

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back about the nfl in the 90s and they

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had those big circles that had all been

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pulling on their legs

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and what we found out is that type of

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stretching increased injury we moved

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away from that back in the 90s so if

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people can visually remember michael

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stretching completely different right

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flapping his arms swinging them around

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and that all came from that and michael

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never really got kind of seriously

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injured throughout his entire career and

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that helped him achieve a level of

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greatness that others weren't able to

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achieve

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and a lot of those things came into me

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during my life that looking at the

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little things putting in that extra bit

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of work because a lot of people are

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pretty good at stuff not a lot of people

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are great at things and that's where

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that difference is right you can be

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pretty good and i often ask people in a

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room right oh you

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how do you feel about this are you

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pretty good yeah people kind of nod are

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you great at it a lot of people stop

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short of that right um that greatness is

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a different level of commitment and a

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lot of it's

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mental right it's not just physical i've

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talked about this many times before i

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don't know if everyone agrees with me

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anymore but you know physically i used

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to tell people michael wasn't the most

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talented swimmer i ever swam with he's

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clearly the greatest and it's not even

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close sure but he wasn't the physically

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most talented that i personally believe

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i ever swam with i could be wrong about

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that but uh you know he did all those

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extra little things that other people

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weren't doing so it was a mix of talent

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and having the right coach the right

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opportunity and the drive and being

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willing to do it when other people

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weren't and swimming's a tough sport

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mentally it's not easy because you're

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alone you're looking at a black line and

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going back and forth

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well those those extra little things you

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know stretching differently and those

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type of things

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what are some examples that when you

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look at retirement income and you

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started getting into this and and

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digging in and writing the books and and

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doing what you do

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what were the things that you started

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to see that were missing that you needed

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to adopt and you were going to tell

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people from a client standpoint that

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they needed to adopt

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yeah and we could start with some little

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things and move up from there

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there's amazingly small things that have

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a big impact which is just you know did

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you think about you know your medicare

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and i'm going through that with somebody

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right now uh and just you know making a

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better decision around medicare not just

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enrolling and trying to avoid premiums

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but actually sitting down and running it

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and looking at what prescription drugs

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you have and are those covered and those

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are small things but they can add up a

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lot and in every area of retirement that

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exists too right are you living in the

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right house or are you just living there

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because you've always lived there and

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it's way too big it's got six bedrooms

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and it's tough to keep up and you're not

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even really happy there anymore so

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thinking about your home equity and and

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what are ways to leverage that or even

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spend it down at some point in your life

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or is that your legacy asset and those

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are you know you would think that those

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are pretty basic conversations you

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should have people weren't having them

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the other one long-term care this is a

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really basic one a lot of people are

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like oh my family will help or my kids

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will be my executor and i'm always like

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have you even asked them

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like did you take the time to just ask

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your kids do they want to be their your

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executor do they want to help with your

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care and the answer is probably yes

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you're probably right if you're writing

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it down to assume it but you have you

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asked the question and put them on

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notice and have that conversation and

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those are little things and all those

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things add up and then what you see is

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you know if people aren't living the

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retirement and not having the confidence

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that they otherwise would want and end

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of day you know i've shifted my mental

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thinking about retirement a lot on this

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i used to be more of a you know think

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about things in the x's and o's and the

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numbers

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and you know is it optimal and you'll

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hear that on the you know on the

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researcher side and i've been in uh been

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a professor now for 15 years and a lot

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of my fellow researchers talked about

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optimal retirement spend down strategies

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and what i learned is most people don't

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care about optimal and you know if you

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had a less optimal retirement but they

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were happier did you do your job and i

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think the answer is probably yes like if

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you told me i'd have no more money but

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i'd be the happiest person alive for the

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rest of my life i would make that trade

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any second of the day right i mean it's

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an easy one so i think a lot of it gets

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back to how do we increase people's

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satisfaction the return on sleep ros

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which i i like that terminology return

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on sleep yeah forget roi it's ros

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interesting

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yeah i agree with that yeah well as i

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said if you you ask somebody right would

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you give up all the money and all the

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stuff you have if you were happy for the

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rest of your life and i think everyone

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most people's answer is yes right so

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that's really what we're aiming for

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right

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dollars aren't really all that important

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in of themselves is what do they allow

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us to accomplish and do right they're a

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means to an end i mean that's why you

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know dollars and monetary things were

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created not in and of themselves but to

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accomplish other goals

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the that answer is an easy answer for

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people yes i'd love to be happy but it's

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also a scary answer

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it's also falling off a cliff a little

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bit for people because it takes them out

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of their comfort zone

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how do you transition or help people

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transition

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from

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them nodding their head when you say

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would you give it all up to live a

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better life to finding that happy medium

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where they can meet you in the middle

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and go live that life

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this is a challenge for people heading

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into retirement i'm

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very simple about this and it's because

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of how we're you know conditioned it's

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how we're trained it's how we're

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educated so i i talk about this which in

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in the book but i i actually kind of

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learned some of this after i wrote the

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first edition of the book which was just

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think about what we do during our

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working years and you just have to stop

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sometime and put it down and all we're

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taught is safe we're taught to put money

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aside

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we're taught the budget which is really

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uh usually a form of making sure that

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we're saving enough right that we're not

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over spending we're not taught to spend

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down assets until we get to retirement

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and then i'd argue right we're not

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really taught it we're not even

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conditioned we're just told hey now's

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the time to spend down so we spent our

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entire lives working 30 years really

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just hoping the account goes up right we

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log into our bank to make sure it went

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up

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and that's really all we care about

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right there's been some studies from

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places internally i think wells fargo

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said like 80 or 80 some percent of

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people only log in to their account to

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make sure the money is there it's the

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only reason they log in so you look at

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something like that like that's what

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we're doing we just want to see it go up

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you know even return on investment i

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know people might care at the end of the

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year but throughout the year we just

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want to make sure the money's not gone

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and so we're taught our whole lives to

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look at this thing going up and to save

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and put money aside and then one day we

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retire very few people phase into

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retirement and now somehow we're just

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supposed to magically do something

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completely different than i did for the

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last 30 years

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honestly it doesn't make any sense to

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believe that people are going to be good

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at that right if i tell you to do

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something for 30 years you do it for 30

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years then the next day i say well now

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you need to do the opposite of that

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you just told me to only learn one thing

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for 30 years yeah we teach accumulation

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but at the end of the day it's a

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decumulation do you think we need a new

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word for that i mean the the the

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industry sometimes the retirement

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industry annuity industry

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they start speaking in their own

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language not in the consumer's language

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which i i try to speak in english out

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here with people decumulation means

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nothing to people

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in fact it sounds bad yeah most of the

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thing right actually even spend down the

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accumulation they're all they all have

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negative connotations and i'm actually

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terrible at that as i said i'm an

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academic at heart and i fall into using

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an attorney right so like we're the

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worst offenders of using our own lingo

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that means nothing to anyone else to

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make ourselves sound smarter uh yeah i

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don't even know if the term retirement

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is a great term either if you look at

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that from an accounting definition right

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it means essentially that the useful

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life of the you know object has passed

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so

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you know when you send something into

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retirement it means there's no value

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anymore and so i don't even know if

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that's a great term but that's just so

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you know the people who try to change

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that term in the sense of get rid of it

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i think it's tough because it's it's

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very ingrained not just in the united

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states but the equivalent of that word

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is used throughout the world so it's

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very hard to change that overnight now

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the income planning versus the

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accumulation spend down that's a little

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bit newer so i i do think that we could

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end up with a a word that's you know or

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a phrase that is better in that space i

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haven't tried to define that one i mean

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i did change mine right rewirement which

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i own the trademark for too good it was

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yeah because i was getting ready to call

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my lawyer and say hey let's get that

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it's a good one right yeah

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and the whole point of that was that you

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know we do need to change the way we

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think about from accumulation to

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decumulation or however you want to you

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know think about it from right saving to

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spending is really what i think about

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right how do we go from a saving mindset

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to a spending mindset because that's

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really what it's about right we're

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saving to achieve some goal that we're

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spending to achieve some goal

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and you know we're not all going to

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spend the same we don't all have the

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same goals but i'm very much a

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goal-based oriented

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planner if you might use that term i

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like to set goals and aim towards them

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and there's a lot of behavioral research

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that supports the notion of goal setting

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and working towards something in sight

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actually working back from it is usually

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better so you know

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but it's not easy and

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that change is fundamentally right

16:23
opposed to how people are wired for

16:26
their entire working career i think that

16:29
as a industry as a profession as a

16:31
society we need to get a lot better at a

16:33
couple things one of them is a really

16:35
short simple one which we're getting

16:37
close to which is just showing people

16:38
how much income they'll have in

16:39
retirement while they're saving

16:41
that you know that's been discussed

16:42
forever and it just seems like such a

16:44
beneficial thing that we've dragged our

16:46
feet on for decades now as a as a

16:49
country now it's coming right where

16:51
we're going to see that statement inside

16:52
the 401k or otherwise but sure it

16:55
probably took way too long

16:57
you know formal phased retirements is a

17:00
really big one and i think that if we

17:02
can get there that'll be a big

17:04
behavioral one that'll be beneficial is

17:06
this expectation that people are just

17:08
supposed to retire one day they still

17:10
work a full day and the next day they're

17:11
in retirement

17:13
there's a lot of negatives with that

17:15
now retirees are on the whole happier

17:19
however you have more depressed people

17:22
in retirement than you do of the whole

17:23
population too so even though you get

17:26
more people that move upscale to a happy

17:28
level so it pulls the average up the

17:30
number of people who actually lose

17:32
meaning because their work goes away

17:34
they become more isolated also increases

17:37
and so that's a group that i think gets

17:39
lost because you see a lot of the stats

17:41
say oh retired grandparents are the

17:43
happiest people in the world true but

17:45
then there's this other group that gets

17:46
isolated that we kind of forget about

17:48
because

17:49
averages tell a terrible story and i

17:51
think that's a big group that honestly

17:53
we need to do better on helping them

17:55
find meaning sustainable income all of

17:57
those things and they're getting lost

17:59
and i

18:01
i don't i don't say that we have a

18:02
retirement crisis on our hands but

18:05
individuals obviously have retirement

18:07
crises on their hands

18:10
well and with the you know there's a

18:11
demographic title wave that's happening

18:13
with you know 10 000 baby boomers

18:15
reaching age 65 which i'm just getting

18:17
ready to say i'm i'll call that chapter

18:19
two

18:20
we can call it decumulation or second

18:23
stage but it's chapter two of your life

18:25
is what i tell people and you know being

18:28
from the south and growing up in the

18:29
south and you you'll giggle from this

18:31
because when you went to davidson you

18:32
started eating barbecue and and and you

18:34
got that twang in your voice right um i

18:37
always tell people there's new there's

18:38
no u-hauls behind hearses

18:40
and um and if you if you see one take a

18:43
picture what i'm trying to tell people

18:45
is live for the day

18:46
and and you know

18:49
covet has taught us one thing that life

18:51
is fragile

18:52
how are you

18:54
when people come to you and and they're

18:56
they're worried about retirement

18:58
um

18:59
how are you encouraging people to try to

19:01
live for the day even though they've

19:03
been box checkers and planners and

19:05
savers and scrimpers their whole life

19:07
that's who's listening to this podcast

19:09
that person that has

19:10
in their world made it to the finish

19:12
line and they've done a heck of a job

19:13
doing it

19:15
and now it kind of needs to be about

19:17
them how do you make it about them

19:20
you have to start in my view with

19:23
planning and it have to give people

19:26
confidence that where they're going they

19:28
can get there there's a lot of different

19:30
ways to do that it's not one not one way

19:33
but to show people that there's a path

19:36
to where they want to go and and

19:38
community does that for people in

19:40
certain areas right it's right why

19:41
people join things like churches why

19:44
people join things like aa because they

19:46
want to see that somebody else has done

19:48
it before

19:49
and you know working with professionals

19:52
can do that because they have worked

19:53
with hundreds or thousands or a firm

19:55
might have helped thousands of people

19:57
achieve a better retirement and so then

19:59
all of a sudden you know it's possible

20:01
and then they start showing you the

20:03
steps that you can take to be proactive

20:05
about getting there sometimes you know

20:07
some individuals just need to see

20:09
numbers run and presented back to them

20:11
and say look you actually can spend this

20:13
and here's what the data numbers and

20:15
analytics show and what you can actually

20:17
spend

20:18
and that you're not going to run out of

20:19
money and you see people who you know

20:22
save save save live their whole

20:24
retirement don't spend anything and die

20:25
with millions of dollars left over uh we

20:28
had one of our advisors recently telling

20:30
us a story about how he actually gave

20:32
one of his clients a new jacket because

20:34
the client was literally worth millions

20:36
of dollars and had worn the same jacket

20:37
for 20 some years right now and here's

20:40
the sad part when he passed away they

20:42
said they were cleaning out his home the

20:43
jacket was still wrapped up he never

20:45
unwrapped the jacket it was still in the

20:46
plastic right wouldn't even use

20:48
something that was given to him

20:50
because he was that concerned about

20:52
running out of money

20:54
and you know those things are you know

20:56
those things are always kind of sad

20:57
because you're probably not living your

20:59
best life you're probably not enjoying

21:01
things to the level that you could and i

21:03
think another big piece is you know

21:05
health is wealth so you know mental

21:07
health physical wealth i think when you

21:09
brought up the covet in this last year

21:11
and a half is you know those are

21:13
important things that you saw people

21:15
that are not here anymore that because

21:17
their health wasn't good or they passed

21:19
away and no matter how much wealth you

21:21
accumulated as you said you don't get to

21:23
take that with you uh you know maybe

21:25
ancient egyptians believe that but i

21:27
don't think most people do anymore we

21:29
don't get buried with our belongings

21:31
very often so i think part of it is

21:33
figuring out just what you want to

21:35
accomplish and i always tell people how

21:37
do you want to make those feel that you

21:39
care about when you pass away right how

21:41
do you want to make them feel

21:43
not what do you want to give them but

21:44
how do you want to make them feel do you

21:46
want them to you know say oh you know

21:48
mom and dad they were just penny

21:50
pinchers they never spent a dollar

21:52
right is that is that really how you

21:53
want to make them feel when you pass

21:55
away or that you were unplanned for your

21:57
death and i think it's a really

21:58
important question

22:00
estate planning attorneys don't ask it

22:02
very much but it's a great question to

22:03
ask yourself you know how do you want to

22:05
make people feel when you're gone

22:07
and daryl green so we talked about

22:10
sports before yeah east coast so daryl

22:12
green and i talked one time and

22:14
i actually explained to the people who

22:16
daryl green is yeah so daryl green is

22:19
the arguably i mean top three uh

22:22
cornerback ever to play in the national

22:24
football maybe the fastest person ever

22:26
in the national football league yep

22:27
arguably the fastest so i think for a

22:29
good 15 years he was something like that

22:32
he was the fastest man in the nfl they

22:34
used to race so people forget about that

22:36
but in the late 80s and 90s they used to

22:38
actually race for that title

22:40
and uh you know he yeah i think he's

22:43
maybe second or third all time from the

22:45
the clock uh going through combine-based

22:48
stuff um he's still up there in the top

22:50
three but played for washington you won

22:53
a couple super bowls played under hall

22:55
of fame coach joe gibbs who then went on

22:57
for jgr racing and uh he he told me one

23:01
time too he's one of the more humble

23:02
people i've ever met right he's in the

23:04
hall of fame

23:05
one of the top people ever to play the

23:06
game one of the fastest people ever be

23:08
alive and he's just amazingly humble

23:11
like so humble that you're like like i

23:13
want you to like tell me cool stories

23:15
about you just shutting people down but

23:17
he won't he just talks you know and it's

23:20
amazing because he said i don't want to

23:22
be remembered as a football player

23:24
because i want to be remembered as dale

23:25
green a great man oh and by the way he

23:27
he played football and i thought that

23:29
was such an amazing thing to think about

23:31
right and he he brought that up because

23:33
of jack kent cook being a football owner

23:36
and he goes sure you know i don't i

23:37
don't want to be remembered like that oh

23:39
you had all that but they think about

23:40
all the stuff he must have done in his

23:41
lifetime but he's only remembered for

23:44
owning a team

23:45
right like it is obviously important to

23:47
him but wouldn't you rather be

23:48
remembered as oh daryl green a great

23:50
person to know by the way right he was a

23:53
financial advisor right like i i think

23:56
that's a really cool way to look at

23:57
things right just how you want to be

23:59
remembered and are you going to be

24:00
remembered for the things that that you

24:02
actually want to be remembered for

24:04
or are you going to be remembered for

24:05
things that you don't necessarily care

24:07
as much that people look at you about

24:09
and

24:10
all that you know ties into your

24:12
retirement right how are you going to

24:13
live your life are you going to be

24:14
giving back or are you going to be

24:16
remembered as the person who passed away

24:17
never spent a single dollar and never

24:19
looked happy while they did it

24:21
how does jamie hopkins want to change

24:24
the game i know you're where i talk

24:25
about legacy but

24:27
what's your drive i mean what you're

24:29
getting up in the morning you're you're

24:31
you know you're a swimmer you get up

24:32
early right uh what's the drive for

24:35
jamie hopkins to change things in the

24:37
retirement income planning world which

24:39
has been static for a long long time

24:42
and you have people like you out there

24:44
and then you have really freaky people

24:46
like me that are these these you know

24:48
these other personalities that are

24:50
trying to tell the truth about these

24:51
things what are you trying to do and

24:54
change in the industry or are you

24:57
i absolutely am i you know i i i have a

25:00
number tied to it but maybe i just need

25:02
to change it there's nothing magical

25:03
about the number but i set out with uh

25:06
just putting it down one time said i'd

25:07
like to make retirement secure for more

25:10
than a million americans and there's no

25:12
reason it only has to be americans or

25:14
that it only has to be limited to a

25:16
million people but it it felt good at

25:18
the beginning

25:19
the reality is actually you know if i

25:21
could track stuff maybe i've already had

25:23
an impact on a million people i don't

25:24
know but uh the drive behind it's a very

25:27
simple uh but also complex story which

25:30
just goes back to my family it's

25:32
personal and

25:33
i you know eight years old i'll do the

25:36
quick version of this but

25:37
this is this is the part that my my

25:40
listeners want to know

25:41
and i'm assuming a lot of your customers

25:43
would be interested in knowing and i

25:45
want to know how you tick so yeah go go

25:48
deep as you want to go yeah so um you

25:50
know i grew up outside baltimore uh

25:52
neither one of my parents graduated from

25:54
college my dad did roofing

25:56
uh gutters fascia siding all stuff high

25:59
up on the ladder my mom helped run a

26:01
business with them so that's what they

26:03
did

26:04
and i was eight years old my dad goes up

26:06
on a ladder it starts to rain

26:08
temperatures drop and you know aluminum

26:10
ladders freeze over faster than a roof

26:12
does so he's coming down he slips falls

26:15
and passes away right there um you know

26:18
all of a sudden then my mom who you know

26:20
how old were you jamie eight years old

26:22
so i've got a four younger sisters i'm

26:24
eight neither parent graduated college

26:26
no life insurance right no term policy

26:28
now this is the you know i don't go out

26:30
and sell insurance today i'm not a

26:32
licensed insurance agent okay uh so this

26:35
is not a sales pitch for term but i

26:37
always tell people that's the you know

26:39
my family i would have been better off

26:41
my mom would have been better off and

26:42
that's the perfect example right you got

26:44
you got you know essentially one income

26:47
earner in the sense of right is the one

26:50
out there doing the work now my mom was

26:52
earning income and she still is actually

26:53
running that business today um you know

26:56
37 years later or whatever

26:59
but right at that moment there was no

27:02
one else to go out and do the work right

27:03
you can't you can't make money doing

27:05
construction if nobody can go out and do

27:07
the work it's the perfect person to have

27:10
term insurance you got young kids

27:11
high-risk job you know no college and

27:14
they didn't have that planning that

27:15
planning didn't get to people in the

27:17
construction world right it doesn't

27:18
really today either the industry is not

27:20
set up to to get advice down to people

27:23
like that that definitely need it and

27:24
even simple pieces of advice

27:26
so you fast forward and you know

27:29
kind of uh i got a lot of great

27:31
opportunities my mom kept working she

27:33
put us through college i got

27:35
opportunities to get scholarships i was

27:37
a good enough swimmer to get a

27:38
scholarship i wasn't a great swimmer i

27:41
went to a great school though davidson

27:43
um got to you know go to law school took

27:45
out a bunch of loans like a lot of other

27:47
people and uh just started seeing tv ads

27:50
and started seeing the tv ads and say

27:52
come do your retirement planning here

27:53
with us and i kept thinking what does

27:55
somebody like my mom do who's never had

27:57
a pension who's never had a 401k um you

28:00
know who didn't have an ira at that time

28:01
and what do they do um they're gonna be

28:03
very reliant on social security and

28:05
medicare and their home and you know

28:08
that's the reality of where my mom is

28:10
today

28:11
uh but you

28:13
i started seeing that and then i got the

28:14
opportunity to clerk in the appellate

28:16
division and one of the cases i got to

28:18
work on was one of bernie madoff's cases

28:21
and uh it showed you the opposite of

28:23
what you would like to see in this

28:24
profession right which that was the

28:26
abuse of trust

28:28
versus the trusted advisor who is

28:31
actually helping people move forward and

28:33
um you know it just kind of all the

28:35
pieces were starting to click then that

28:37
there was this huge right you just see

28:39
the data and you said the 10 000 hitting

28:41
65 every day and you saw the data you

28:44
saw these tv ads every time you turned

28:46
on the tv there was a fidelity or other

28:48
ad on there they did good ads but i just

28:50
knew that there was a gap out there and

28:52
then i um you know i did some estate

28:54
planning work i worked on some pension

28:56
cases i worked in private equity and

28:59
then eventually i got an opportunity to

29:01
kind of shift specifically into the

29:03
income planning field and i spent seven

29:05
years at american college uh with my

29:08
co-director there david lately building

29:10
out the ricp for people who don't know

29:12
that retirement income certified

29:14
professional and over seven years we we

29:17
uh impacted right around 18 000

29:20
financial advisors and agents had went

29:22
through that sure

29:23
you know college program and that's a

29:26
lot um to put that in perspective it was

29:28
more during that stretch than we're

29:29
going into the cfp so

29:32
but it you know that's not because i'm

29:34
magic or david was magic we were in the

29:36
right space at the right time and

29:38
everyone was saying come work with this

29:39
but nobody was really doing training and

29:42
education and research on it and it's

29:44
it's it's done very well and so it's you

29:46
know if you think about you know i i

29:48
don't know what the numbers are now i've

29:49
been gone for three years

29:52
and i

29:53
for professorship at creighton and then

29:54
i joined carson because i actually had

29:57
another insight my other insight was i

29:59
had an advisor that went through and he

30:02
came to a presentation later on of mine

30:04
and i was presenting on roth conversions

30:06
and some tax efficient uh ways to manage

30:09
a retirement income portfolio

30:11
and i think i saw him two years again

30:13
later i think it was two years and he

30:15
comes up to me goes jamie do you have

30:16
that slide deck from that presentation

30:18
two years ago

30:20
they go yeah i could get it too because

30:21
yeah there was a lot of stuff i wanted

30:23
to implement from that but never really

30:24
got around to it and i just remember

30:26
thinking like this is depressing right

30:29
there's this person who went through

30:30
this program great he did that he showed

30:32
up to another presentation still

30:33
interested in it but somehow two years

30:36
had passed

30:37
and he hadn't actually taken any of that

30:39
and put it into practice

30:40
and it was depressing for me because i

30:42
thought you know here i am i'm educating

30:44
i'm helping advisors get better and then

30:46
i realize that unless i take another

30:48
step forward and i'm actually able to

30:50
create the systems and the processes

30:52
that help them implement this with the

30:55
clients

30:56
i'm educating but i'm not changing and

30:59
obviously education is very important

31:00
but i have personally um you know i i'm

31:03
big supporter of education but i've also

31:05
personally changed my mindset on that

31:07
that at one point i thought you could

31:08
just educate people

31:10
and the world would change

31:13
and now i know education is a piece of

31:15
it it's not the solution and

31:17
interestingly enough there's actually a

31:19
ton of research which i didn't know at

31:20
the time about how uh ineffective

31:23
education alone is in most areas right

31:26
that it does need to be coupled with

31:28
opportunity systems processes you know

31:30
uh but education is still important and

31:33
it's also it's often a very cost

31:35
effective way to do things and implement

31:37
change right building technology and

31:39
systems to get people into is very

31:40
expensive educating people tends to be

31:43
fairly cheap in comparison so i i looked

31:47
out for a place that i thought was just

31:48
interesting and was building systems

31:51
that would help advisors create more

31:53
secure retirement for their clients and

31:56
i found carson and ended up joining here

31:59
and have spent three years here now

32:01
feeling like we're doing that

32:03
and you know we've uh you know we impact

32:05
a lot of households is the way we look

32:07
at things at our firm we have served 39

32:10
000 households now which is a lot so i'm

32:14
not at the million internally yet but uh

32:17
you know that's a lot of individuals uh

32:19
getting help and a lot more people still

32:21
need it though right when you think

32:22
about that number as the grand scheme of

32:24
the world it's not even a percent of a

32:26
percent right it's a a very small piece

32:29
of the overall pie

32:31
but that's what makes it easy for me so

32:33
if you get back to the end of the day

32:35
people are like well you work pretty

32:36
hard jamie and you get up early and you

32:38
work late and all these different things

32:40
that i'm involved with it's easy because

32:43
what i tell people is my what you know

32:44
my why makes me cry it's very easy i'll

32:46
never i'll never have a moment in my

32:48
life where you know where i'm like i

32:49
don't want to work anymore i don't want

32:51
to do that because it's very easy you

32:53
think about your mom and your dad and

32:54
your dad passed away in your aid and

32:56
leaving your family in that situation

32:58
your mom's struggling for all those

32:59
years i'm never gonna get tired of that

33:01
i'm never gonna not have that as a

33:03
driving factor and so when we you know

33:06
when i coach people too i always say

33:08
that right find a why that makes you cry

33:10
and

33:11
if you have that right you'll be able to

33:13
outwork other people and i know a lot of

33:15
people think they work hard

33:17
but typically people who have that why

33:20
deeply rooted they understand it they

33:22
can go back to it they pull from it like

33:25
a well they can outwork other people and

33:27
a lot of it just comes down to that are

33:28
you willing to put in the extra and

33:30
that's that's my driving why so it's uh

33:32
you know it's personal and it's i think

33:34
most wise should be right great great

33:37
background great foundation for the

33:40
listeners and viewers the why that makes

33:42
you cry can that be applied to the

33:44
retiree or the person going towards

33:47
retirement planning for retirement

33:50
can you explain what and give some

33:52
examples possibly of the why that makes

33:54
you cry for people that are going to

33:56
chapter two of their life

33:58
absolutely i mean you can use that in

34:00
any area of your life

34:02
it just takes work it takes work on

34:04
driving down into yourself and

34:07
understanding what makes you click what

34:08
you're afraid of

34:10
so a great example of this is i was

34:12
talking to dr brad klontz one time who's

34:14
a fantastic author and writer and he was

34:17
talking about i think it's his great

34:19
grandmother right um was you know super

34:22
conservative with her spending and how

34:24
she approached things and even some of

34:26
that still impacts him today

34:28
and you know you can look at things like

34:30
that like you know maybe you have a

34:32
family member you don't want to be like

34:33
and you don't want to live the life that

34:35
they did or as i said you know you want

34:38
to change like you're very involved with

34:40
your church and you want to leave a

34:42
lasting legacy and impact so how are you

34:44
going to live your retirement to

34:45
actually give back and make meaningful

34:47
change there and if you every day you

34:49
wake up and say you know what i'm doing

34:50
something positive today with my life

34:52
and i'm living my retirement in a way

34:54
that's going to you know show the change

34:56
that i want to have or

34:58
maybe your parents or grandparents

35:00
passed away when you're young and you

35:01
didn't get to spend time with you know

35:02
you never got to spend time with your

35:04
grandparents and you want to make sure

35:06
that your grandchildren have that time

35:08
with you i mean that's a why that would

35:09
make you cry right being able to have

35:11
grandchildren that grow up you know

35:13
loving the experiences that they had

35:15
with you and that's how you design where

35:18
you want to live how you want to spend

35:19
your time and so i think all of those

35:22
right they can be different there's not

35:23
one answer for anyone there but i do

35:26
think if you get to retirement and you

35:27
say i have zero passions and i don't

35:29
have anything i care about right like

35:31
you're not gonna live a great retirement

35:32
right um whatever it might be like find

35:35
that piece then it might be you know

35:38
whatever it is for you i mean i think

35:39
that's deeply personal it's also why all

35:41
this stuff is called personal finance

35:43
because it's about you it's personal um

35:46
you know one of uh my friends paul west

35:48
always when he does presentations on

35:49
this he holds up his thumb and he says

35:51
what's this you know it's my thumbprint

35:53
it's unique to me just like your

35:54
retirement will be unique to you

35:58
i love that because the whole why that

36:00
makes you cry um

36:02
you know we could people talk about

36:04
money and get caught up in roi and get

36:06
caught up in what they have and can it

36:07
cover for long-term care and all the

36:09
stuff

36:11
but but i

36:12
totally agree with you as part of the

36:15
and i hate that we use the word holistic

36:17
but part of the whole planning

36:20
for people's retirement

36:22
um should involve the passion what's the

36:24
passion what are you doing you know what

36:27
just because you retire passion is not

36:28
flipping channels unless you're

36:31
you know professional channel flipper

36:33
and work for nielsen right i mean if

36:34
that's your passion but when you when

36:36
you're advising um

36:38
clients and working with the advisors

36:40
that were

36:42
at the firm you're with

36:44
are you always making sure that they're

36:46
asking that why

36:47
and making sure that there's a reason

36:50
for what's being done other than just

36:52
numbers in return

36:55
yeah so our you know process that we we

36:58
call the proven process internally which

37:01
is you know always working with people

37:04
on the emotional and soft

37:07
you know soft aspect of this first but

37:10
you do really have to dive in to

37:11
understand what's people's relationship

37:13
with their money what are their goals

37:15
you know how do they feel about things

37:17
versus just hopping in and saying hey

37:20
here's the numbers and uh our ceo talks

37:22
about it a lot he's like if you live and

37:24
die off the returns right you can't

37:26
control that end of day right returns

37:28
are going to be for the most part what

37:30
returns are and we're not out there

37:32
trying to outperform the market on

37:34
returns now there's a whole world out

37:35
there that's trying to do that and it's

37:37
not us and if you're looking for that

37:38
you got to go elsewhere and look for it

37:40
right if you think that there's magic

37:41
out there that you know that's that's

37:43
what you're looking for and some people

37:45
do right i mean there are there are

37:47
there's a portion of the world that's

37:48
looking for that and there'll be a

37:50
market then that serves you but it's not

37:51
kind of where planning lies the planning

37:53
doesn't lie in the notion of we're gonna

37:56
you know somehow find magic and you know

37:58
provide better returns or whatever it

38:00
might be so it's getting back to the

38:02
individuals starting with the proven

38:04
process working on um you know planning

38:07
and just seeing what does true wealth

38:10
mean to you and so that's a term we use

38:12
a lot here too is true wealth and if you

38:15
kind of think about like the the

38:17
hierarchy of needs which a lot of people

38:19
might remember from school which is you

38:21
know you take care of your bases and you

38:23
build off of it up until something

38:24
that's a little bit more you know

38:26
spiritual or detached from

38:29
the basics that you need and honestly

38:31
that can be applied to finances too that

38:33
you have to take care of your basic

38:35
income needs and spending needs

38:37
you know your food your health care your

38:39
housing your taxes and you build upon

38:41
that to get to the things that you know

38:43
might be legacy or meaning in your life

38:46
but you have to talk about those because

38:47
if you don't talk about them like what

38:49
are we doing there like why are we why

38:51
are we here to do planning

38:53
and you know i think all those questions

38:55
you know about family is important about

38:59
loss about legacy about how you want to

39:02
make others feel like why are you here

39:04
today at all i mean if it's you know

39:06
somebody says i'm here today because i

39:08
want better returns than my neighbor i

39:10
mean

39:12
that's that's a pretty short-sighted uh

39:14
view of the world so

39:16
i think helping people on that is often

39:18
good and a lot of people haven't done

39:20
that work either they haven't put in

39:22
that time and you know

39:24
you can view this relationship as a as a

39:27
coaching relationship in a lot of cases

39:29
too financial coaching is a term that's

39:32
out there now too

39:34
and some people need that and they need

39:35
to change their relationship with money

39:37
where they've come from an area of

39:40
stress and

39:42
you know not an abundance mindset and

39:45
they need to change they need to

39:47
fundamentally go back to that

39:48
relationship and change it and that

39:50
requires coaching it's not just planning

39:52
it requires having conversations and

39:54
thinking about what was your first

39:56
experience with money well it was being

39:58
on food stamps and not having enough

39:59
money okay well you're gonna approach

40:01
things differently than somebody else

40:03
who grew up wealthy and didn't have to

40:04
struggle and has always had an abundance

40:06
mindset and can spend spend spend

40:08
because they've never you know feel felt

40:11
the pain of being without money and so

40:13
those are those require different

40:15
approaches

40:17
looking at just retirement income

40:19
planning um what are some of the

40:21
misconceptions biases that you run

40:23
across that you're trying to clarify

40:25
with your work

40:27
yeah there's been a lot out there i

40:29
think one of them was that this

40:32
retirement income

40:34
you know

40:35
issue was somehow related to a lack of

40:38
financial literacy uh that's actually a

40:40
bias that we can kind of prove isn't

40:42
really the case now there is uh like an

40:45
income literacy gap out there and i know

40:48
people we've been talking about terms

40:49
people don't love literacy is a term

40:51
that p not everybody loves but it's one

40:53
that at least people understand what

40:54
we're talking about use it so for

40:57
purposes of conversation it functions uh

40:59
well as a communication tool

41:02
but if you look at people nearing

41:04
retirement we actually see most

41:06
americans have gained some sense of

41:07
financial literacy it does not mean

41:10
though that they're good at income

41:11
planning those are two different things

41:13
they're very different the testing for

41:15
both like we understand compound

41:17
interest and the value of savings and

41:19
long-term growth by the time we get to

41:21
retirement um

41:23
so that's a good thing but the flip side

41:25
is americans don't exhibit much

41:27
retirement income literacy and again it

41:29
makes sense because they haven't

41:31
experienced it

41:32
so i do think that that is a

41:34
juxtaposition that not a lot of people

41:36
get that i might be financial literate

41:38
but it doesn't mean i'm retirement

41:40
income literate and those are two

41:41
different things

41:43
the other one is i think there's a big

41:45
misconception about longevity and what

41:47
does that even mean

41:49
and what we do see there's a lot of data

41:51
that'll show people tend to

41:53
underestimate their own life expectancy

41:55
right we think we're gonna die earlier

41:58
than we're going to but at the same time

42:00
we also act as if we're immortal and

42:02
won't get sick and won't need long-term

42:04
care so we we have this very weird piece

42:07
right like well i'm obviously not going

42:08
to live to 90 but i'm not going to need

42:10
long-term care either and i'm like well

42:13
how are we playing both of these wrong

42:15
right

42:16
and so some things are just reframing

42:19
how you ask questions there and you know

42:22
if you're alive at 65 you're a couple

42:24
right it's more likely than not that one

42:26
of the two of you will be alive at you

42:27
know 90 95. you start looking at the

42:30
numbers like that and then you said like

42:32
if there was a greater than 50 percent

42:34
chance you'd be alive at this date would

42:35
you plan for it and if the answer is yes

42:37
then we need to change our planning

42:39
and if you frame the question like that

42:42
people answer yes if you say you expect

42:44
to live to 90 many fewer people say yes

42:47
so some of that is just you know that's

42:49
framing it's how information is

42:50
presented you changes your outcome and

42:53
that is truly what is considered

42:55
actually an irrational decision do you

42:57
make a decision differently just based

42:59
on the way that information is presented

43:01
so i think as an industry we've

43:02
presented information uh kind of

43:05
improperly for a long time even

43:08
something

43:09
you'll appreciate this one like

43:11
deferring social security

43:13
is uh i believe that we've kind of

43:15
messed that up because we've presented

43:17
the information incorrectly we always

43:19
tell people hey if you defer you get

43:21
eight percent more

43:22
well what are we telling people we're

43:23
saying take on additional risk to get a

43:26
higher guarantee exactly

43:28
well we know that people actually don't

43:30
chase

43:31
on average people don't like to chase

43:33
risk for higher return we'll chase risk

43:35
to get rid of loss

43:37
and we like to lock in

43:40
gains right like we want the certainty

43:42
of gain but we'll take risks to avoid

43:44
loss

43:45
it's a little bit odd but it is how

43:46
people react so telling people to defer

43:49
meaning i will skip my guarantees and i

43:52
will take on the risk of dying next year

43:54
to receive a gain is the incorrect way

43:56
to look at it what we need to present it

43:58
is you know if you claim today here's

44:01
how much total income you would be

44:02
giving up in your life that is a better

44:05
way to present it to most people not

44:07
everybody but to most people but it's

44:09
not how it's done right it's not how we

44:10
present anything um in that fashion and

44:13
so there are little things like that

44:15
those are learning how people react to

44:17
information and reframing those points

44:21
so you know deferral secure income

44:24
we talked about longevity and long-term

44:27
care all of those can be presented in

44:29
better ways to actually get people to

44:31
act upon them versus how we approach it

44:34
today which is more fear driven which is

44:36
a motivating factor but it's not as

44:38
powerful as some of the other ones that

44:39
we could use

44:41
you and we had weight foul on recently

44:43
and and um one of his books that i just

44:45
found fascinating was the you know the

44:47
the reverse mortgage book and i know

44:50
that you are one of the few handful of

44:51
people that

44:53
bravely address that and take the

44:55
pioneers take all the arrows right um

44:58
can you kind of explain how that works

45:01
from the standpoint of just how you

45:03
introduce that to people because i know

45:05
annuities get a bad rap and a lot of

45:07
that's deserved on some of the sales

45:09
practices that are going on out there

45:11
um but in the reverse mortgage side

45:14
um you know wade has a good take on that

45:16
i'd like to hear your take on that as

45:18
well

45:19
yeah so you know dr wade fowle and i are

45:22
pretty good friends he wrote the forge

45:23
of my book i was part of the college

45:27
in the income center when we hired him

45:29
to bring him in and he actually uh you

45:31
know that that's an area you said the

45:33
future right he was the future of the

45:35
program when i stepped out he was uh

45:37
right there behind me and stepped in as

45:38
a director and uh

45:41
so wade and i uh while we were at the

45:43
college we became involved with a group

45:45
at the time which was called the the

45:47
funding longevity task force and it was

45:49
a group of academics where we joke

45:52
eggheads that uh just talked about

45:54
reverse mortgages and started to be this

45:56
early group of researchers dr barry

45:59
sacks uh dr john salter at texas tech

46:02
and barry sachs is one of the more

46:03
intelligent people i've ever met i don't

46:05
know how many of these people i believe

46:07
he has a phd from mit and a jd from

46:11
harvard there's only you know what i

46:13
don't know how many of those there are

46:14
but it's a pretty good combo yeah yeah

46:18
so he's he's at least good at research

46:21
right um at a minimum and exactly uh

46:24
he's a very humble person he's one of

46:26
those people that also teaches you that

46:27
the smartest person in the room never

46:29
actually thinks they're the smartest

46:30
person in the room right if you asked

46:32
are you above or below average

46:33
intelligence he might put his hand up on

46:36
average intelligence and you're just

46:37
looking at him going barry there's

46:39
nothing average about you my friend

46:42
so this group came together and um you

46:45
know it was kind of based off of this

46:48
notion that that popped up two

46:49
researchers uh barry sacks and his

46:51
brother and john salter and harold

46:53
levinsky and for people who are

46:55
listening you don't have to worry about

46:56
who these people are they're just the

46:57
names of the researchers so we had two

47:00
groups in the same year that ended up

47:02
doing research about reverse mortgages

47:04
and the use of them because everything

47:06
was an even finra one of the regulating

47:08
bodies here in the financial industry

47:10
said use reverse mortgages as a last

47:13
resort that's been the status quo for a

47:15
long time right and so you got academics

47:18
that just decided to go test this

47:20
and what they found was that that was

47:23
wrong

47:24
that they're like none of the mass

47:26
supported it

47:27
and you know now it seems common sense

47:29
that obviously the mass shouldn't

47:30
support it but at the time people just

47:32
hadn't tested it and interestingly

47:34
enough this is the best thing for

47:35
academic research is that both of the

47:37
studies were occurring at the same time

47:39
unknown to each other and had similar

47:41
outcomes why is that really important in

47:44
the research world because it means that

47:45
we didn't have the bias of one existing

47:48
and impacting the research of future

47:50
researchers so while they were published

47:53
not at the exact same time they actually

47:55
finished their outcomes and were in

47:57
journal publication at the same time

47:59
which is huge and what those that

48:01
research found at the time was instead

48:04
of using home equity and reverse

48:06
mortgages as a line of last resort in

48:08
most situations you're going to be

48:10
better off using it early in retirement

48:14
and there's a basic fundamental

48:16
principle that underlies all this and i

48:18
always do this let's say we had three

48:20
assets one's gonna grow at three percent

48:23
one's gonna grow at five percent one's

48:24
going to grow at eight percent

48:27
and you get to retirement stand and i

48:28
say here's your three assets we got your

48:30
three percent bucket you're five percent

48:32
and you're eight percent

48:34
you choose which one to spend first and

48:36
how do you want to end up with the most

48:37
money which bucket do you spend first

48:39
you spend down your highest earning

48:41
asset first no of course not you leave

48:43
that for as long as possible do you set

48:45
your second highest earning asset

48:47
next no you probably don't you probably

48:49
spend what you spend your lowest earning

48:51
asset first right

48:53
it makes perfect you know all else being

48:55
equal makes perfect sense

48:57
well essentially houses you look at the

48:59
shiller index growth about three percent

49:01
historical right throughout the course

49:03
of the united states bonds were closer

49:05
to four to five percent equities are

49:06
closer to eight depending on which

49:08
equities you're looking at

49:10
okay so if we get to retirement should

49:12
we keep our home to our final asset that

49:14
really all homes do historically is keep

49:17
pace with inflation

49:18
well actually we shouldn't because on

49:20
average that is going to keep our worst

49:22
performing return asset the longest and

49:25
spend down our other assets first

49:27
and so what the research essentially

49:30
found was use reverse mortgages and

49:32
downturns

49:34
right earlier in retirement or to help

49:37
defer the spending of other assets right

49:39
so if the market drops instead of

49:42
spending a bunch of your

49:44
right equities and bonds pool from your

49:47
home pool from your equity through a

49:49
reverse mortgage versus spending down

49:52
your stocks and bonds early during

49:54
volatile time periods and leaving your

49:55
home to the end and that's what they've

49:57
kind of deemed as the coordinated

49:59
strategy coordinating your home equity

50:02
distributions and spending along with

50:04
your other assets and you use the term

50:06
earlier it's a holistic approach

50:09
and honestly

50:10
there are very few

50:12
things in the world that i've ever seen

50:14
where just leaving something alone and

50:17
doing nothing with it is the best

50:19
strategy

50:21
right typically doing something is

50:24
better than doing nothing so it actually

50:26
makes perfect sense that some

50:27
coordination between the assets is

50:29
probably better than doing absolutely

50:32
nothing with it and that is what the

50:34
research has found

50:36
now uh telling the story of that group

50:38
it's obviously progressed a lot the laws

50:40
and the rules have changed the

50:42
researchers got in deeper and deeper

50:44
that group uh moved from there to part

50:46
of the american college when wade and i

50:48
were there and then when i left um i

50:50
kind of i guess shepherded it away

50:54
in a sense because i wasn't going to be

50:55
there anymore

50:57
wade's still part of it and we took it

50:59
to university of illinois and it is a

51:01
part of the university of illinois and

51:02
we still do research out of there it's

51:04
grown a little bit

51:06
where we've got some former hud members

51:08
and uh

51:10
additional researchers that have joined

51:12
since then

51:13
and it has broadened we do look at home

51:15
equity um it really it's uh you know it

51:18
is really the initiative now is around

51:20
home equity right and income planning

51:23
but

51:24
it's a big miss for a lot of people is

51:26
just having a bias against the product

51:28
now i agree the same way and i've said

51:30
this many times both about annuities and

51:32
reverse forages i believe both products

51:35
have been oversold and underutilized

51:38
which means i don't love the sales

51:39
practices and there were a lot of uh in

51:42
the reverse spaces especially one of the

51:44
issues was people were compensated based

51:47
off of the dollar amount that you pulled

51:49
out of the loan

51:50
that actually doesn't tie to any best

51:52
practices of research i mean and the

51:54
clear bias there is if i am a loan

51:56
officer there and that's how i'm

51:57
compensated i'm trying to get you to

51:58
pull all the money out by day one even

52:00
if you need it or don't need it that's

52:02
obviously not a good practice and i

52:03
don't support it

52:05
but you know integration of home equity

52:08
and retirement planning is important

52:10
the american dream can turn into the

52:12
american stream right

52:15
i'm always thinking about marketing how

52:17
do you how do you frame it in english

52:19
too

52:20
so that people understand it but

52:22
i haven't even gotten to the list of

52:25
topics so that means you have to come

52:26
back on in the future jamie the truth

52:30
but um any last i got to kind of close

52:33
it up because uh you know people have to

52:35
get off the treadmill um or get out of

52:37
their car so what any any sage advice

52:40
for the listeners and viewers from jamie

52:42
the truth hopkins

52:44
well i thought it was the future now i'm

52:46
you know paul pierce the truth the truth

52:49
it is you are the future no and all

52:51
kidding you are the future and and i say

52:54
that

52:54
with respect but also the fact that i

52:57
think you're kind of like me you're very

52:59
serious about what you do but you don't

53:01
take yourself too seriously yeah well i

53:03
would say here's here's something i give

53:05
to everyone i write this in the book two

53:07
requirement which is challenge what you

53:09
think is true

53:10
okay there are lots of examples of

53:13
things we know to be true that we're

53:14
wrong about and i use this example as

53:16
more of a you know normal one because

53:18
everyone knows the answer

53:21
what's the one thing stan you know about

53:23
napoleon

53:25
i'm taller than he is

53:28
right everybody knows that napoleon

53:31
right or most people

53:33
was uh a shorter you know a short person

53:36
right there's a napoleon complex named

53:38
after it

53:39
vertically challenged is what i call it

53:41
right right

53:43
and then here's the thing we know as a

53:45
fact that napoleon was an above average

53:47
height individual

53:49
he was in he was an above average height

53:51
person

53:53
and all of a sudden you're like no no

53:55
they can't be true they can go look it

53:56
up we've got all that you know they have

53:58
everything about it the only reason we

54:00
believe that napoleon was short

54:02
was because of british propaganda during

54:04
the war they drew him as a tiny short

54:06
fat guy on the horse to discredit him

54:10
very nice i said it with confidence

54:11
because i'm six six so i'm pretty sure

54:14
oh yeah no i could post him up and score

54:16
at will

54:17
on him on napoleon

54:19
you you easily could have posted him up

54:21
and remember everybody was sure and then

54:22
some people bring it up well you know he

54:24
was only five foot six or whatever i'm

54:26
like but that's irrelevant because at

54:28
the time he was

54:29
a taller person right he would be a six

54:31
foot one person today

54:33
you know so no napoleon wasn't short but

54:36
everybody believes that to be true i

54:38
mean you probably could even get a

54:39
jeopardy question which what is you know

54:41
and get that one wrong and those things

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are amazing to me and the fact that we

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just believe that they're true we don't

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challenge things that is true all across

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the board you believe that reverse

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mortgages are bad and evil products in

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themselves are very rare you see the ad

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that says i hate all annuities yep i

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hate annuities well you know we don't we

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don't have enough time to dive into that

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one but next time next time i mean i

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always tell people you already own one

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it's called social security so you can't

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hate it that much or you need to call

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the government and cancel the payments

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jamie the future i really appreciate it

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it's been a pleasure

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i'm having you on i'm going to hold you

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to the fact that you nodded your head

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that you will come back on because i

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want to get into

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a lot more details but um i really

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enjoyed learning about who you who you

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are what makes you tick the background

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i've certainly been a follower of your

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work as i'm sure all of my a lot of my

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clients and and people listen to this

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